Sometimes I'll watch someone who teaches 'game', and it's like the things they say aren't particularly special, and i'm wondering ''where is the 'game'??'' The only consistency is that the guys seems relaxed and comfortable.

We often hear that game 'isn't about using fancy/scripted lines'.

I'm struggling because my interactions with girls now don't seem to be any different than from before I read a number of pickup books. I'm still not really sure how i'm supposed to 'game' a girl. How to implement what i've read.

The only difference is that I try to use kino and I open a lot more girls now since reading the books.

Does that make sense? Every time I finish reading a pickup book, I kind of feel as though i've missed out on some big sections about what the hell i'm supposed to say and do to change the way the interactions look!

I still haven't 'learnt game' despite reading all the books somehow? (and obviously making lots of approaches)