To keep things easier to read I'll post a timeline for ya. I apologize in advance for a long post.

I'm 21M and she's 18F. I own my own house and car. She lives with her parents but has a car.

Tuesday night - Pick up girl B to go swing dancing, she tells me that girl A wants her to come over for dinner first. I almost bailed and said I'd just meet her at the dance and whatnot but decided to go to girl A's house.

Arrived at girl A's house and she's gorgeous. Model gorgeous. Hit it off right away and had some light kino going till we left for the dance. While at her house she was all up in my space and vice versa.

Had fun with girl B at the dance but didn't interact much with girl A except to put myself in her phone as FirstnameLastname (the hottie), got her snapchat and fb too.

Tuesday night - texted me to say she had fun and it was good meeting me, etc. Very flirty, arranged for her to come over to my pool Thursday at 11am.

Wednesday- no contact

Thursday - she texts me at 10am and says she can't come over because her grandma is coming over and she has to clean. I tell her I still want cookies and I'll be over at 12 (she made cookies the night before and she was supposed to bring some when she came over). She says okay but her parents aren't home so I can't stay long. That's cool.

12 noon - show up and she meets me at the door. I tell her I'm kidnapping her and taking her downtown. She agrees and we take my car. On the way I mention that in considering buying a new high end luxury car since I was offered a lot of money for mine. I change course and we go to the dealership right away. She's excited about the prospect of test driving a sweet new car.

12:30 - arrive at the dealer and grab the keys for a new car (did I mention I am a salesman there?) and take it out for the day. We drove on some twisty back roads that really showed off the performance of the car the headed downtown.

We park and head into the park and I hold her hand while we walk. We come to a shady area with a swing that's open so we sit on it and I play with her rings and bracelets and we talk about them, then I put my arm around her while we talk about random stuff (she felt compelled to tell me about her entire sexual history, which wasn't actually that much).

She asks how she ranks from 1-10 and I tell her I don't rank people, they're either on my good list or my shit list. She asked which one she was on and instead of responding verbally in brush her hair out of her face and pull her in for a kiss. She responded positively and we made out for a while.

We decide to walk around then got milkshakes. Lots of kino, arms around each other, hands in pockets, etc.

3pm - we drop off the test car and pick mine up and then drive around just listening to music and talking and she tells me about how she hooked up with a guy on her last cruise but it made her feel dirty and she only wants to have sex with people she's dating in the future. I agree that it should be fun for both parties, but leave out the part about dating.

4pm - We end up at my house and she says she doesn't trust herself to be alone with me because she think we'll end up doing the deed. (Shit test, I'm pretty positive we'll still have sex, she just wants plausible deniability) I tell her it's okay, I never hook up on the first date and she says good and we go inside.

I turn on a tv show on netflix and she snuggles up to me. We start making out and then she gets on top of me and is grinding on me hard. I take her to my room and we get naked and have lots of fore play and she comes a couple times, I go to grab a meat wrapper and she says she doesn't want to go all the way. I do my best to salvage the situation but to no avail. We get dressed and everything seems fine.

I take her home and on the way I told her that I respected her more for not putting out on the first date and she seemed pleased. (I tend to run my mouth, it's a bad habit).

I invited her this morning to come to a cookout for my car club tomorrow night but she said her parents don't want her out that late (it'll go till about 2am). I said okay have fun at the lake. That was our last contact.

I like this girl, she's LTR material I think, but I don't want be tied down. Also I want to fuck her. What should I do?