Hello seddit,

I have a multifaceted problem.

First off, I am rather introverted. I am not loud, not very sociable and rather nerdy and analytical. I am funny, though.

When I am drunk, I am really outgoing. Funny. People like me, laugh with me and have a good night.

My problem is, women seem to like neither part of me. I know this is a problem of my self-esteem and confidence but I dont know how to change that. How do I actually get people/women interested in me? I think I am always interpreting something wrong or am not very charming, and when sober I am not at all interesting and confident.

What should I do?