My sticking point is that the interactions & conversations go great. Good flirting , even solid non-sexual, but flirtations physical contact: playful hand-holding, etc. BUT, for some reason, when I ask to meet for coffee/lunch, then their mood shifts & they become greatly disinterested and say some stuff like " I prefer group events/ group hang-outs". I have even stated my intentions clearly in some instances.

This has happened with different women & has occurred exactly like I described above. Is it that I'm not building enough trust or do I keep talking to women with the same personality-type? What do you think might be causing this?

This has just been happening recently which is surprising me. This occurrence so young, yet it's getting old quick, lol.