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As long as you dont want anything from me haha

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October 22, 2016

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Title	As long as you dont want anything from me haha
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	14
Date	October 22, 2016 9:25 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/58se91/as_long_as_you_dont_want_anything_from_me_haha/
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[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 9 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

[–]Comyu 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

If she's really hot then I definitely recommend writing what I said or something similar. Hot girls normally can take bolder teasing and I think most hot girls actually crave it. All the hot girls I've interacted respond well to jabs. In pua I guess they call it negging. I don't like that term. I'd just call it teasing and mucking around. You know the girl better, and you know yourself. So don't write it, if it's not congruent to you. But if you're just not writing something like that out of fear, then I urge you to re-consider. These little moments are what might spark her excitement a lot more even if it's scary for you.

i never really know if i have a chance or she is just playing with me.

Great! Uncertainty is part of life and part of our interactions with women. You never want to be certain. Because that means you've stopped being present and started to assume things. Just make sure you can be comfortable with your uncertainty.

I cant really go all in since i will be in class with her for 3 more years and sit next to her

You won't go in. And that's your right and choice. I wouldn't call that tease an all in, it's just a bit of fun. If it's sooooo bad you can always give her a fake apology. But I'm guessing even if it annoys her your connection will be stronger. Fights can be a resource if used well. Up to you what you do and what you don't. Life is short though, and at any time she may get bored and friendzone you, remember that.

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[–]TheXXL 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The thing is, I am cheeky, and I say some crazy stuff sometimes, but there are things that I know never to say, it's basic social intelligence. No one likes to be insulted, and telling a girl she stinks, is insulting. Even if you laugh, it still is uncalibrated. See it this way, most women are insecure, even the ones used to being hit on all the time, and they all are pretty conscious about hygiene.

Trust me, telling her "I bet you vagina smells" is only making her get pissed at you, or making her just ignore you. Negs just don't work that well. Read up on the various examples from pickup forums where guys did that, and you will see that the majority complain about the girl suddenly going cold or getting angry.

What would be much better in ops situation, is to tell turn the frame around, making her look like she is the one wanting something from him, as in "honey, don't be silly, I know you only want me for my body, all women do. I am craving a girl that sees me for more as just a piece of meat."

This way you make sure you don't take her remark seriously, and you don't have to resort to dumb insults. Remember, negs are for insecure idiots, like mystery. He was always trying to lower a girls value to raise his, and while it might work on some girls, you don't want that type of girls. They are toxic, trust me, been there, done that.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think I get what you're saying. I'm not really talking about negs. (I know what they are) I don't do it to lower a girls value ever. I do it because that's who I am. I tease my friends and I tease beautiful women. It's fun for me. I guess this is my type of humour and I like to be a bit of an asshole and connect with girls that can take that level of banter. Calling her vagina smelly is a joke obviously. If it pisses her off too, I can deal with that. Anger isn't a permanent condition.

while it might work on some girls, you don't want that type of girls. They are toxic, trust me, been there, done that.

I disagree. Girls that can take that level of teasing and not just tak it but enjoy it and laugh at it usually have high self esteem. Girls that get angry and pissed about it are probably insecure about their vagina or other problems in the first place.