been blue pill most of my life.. been reading and implementing redpill a lot. and wanted to thank you guys and the community.

Been working out for over a year now.. make good money dress very well etc..

been dating my gf for around 4-5 months.. and she def shit tests me a lot.. I think i do well with most.. might have failed a few.. not quite sure.. but this came up last night just wondering if I over reacted or not..

Anyway, were at a bar we step outside where you can hang out and sit on these steps.. we bump into a few regulars from the bar and start chatting.. we all drank a bit and had a few puffs from a joint.. me and my girl smoke on occasion once every few months. I saw she was a bit tired/weak she asked me if i can get up and get her a glass of water.. I said sure np.. went on the way back she addressed me in her native tongue ( im an American ex pat but do speak the lang fluently just not might not understand all the humour) as hey waiter or waitress and everyone laughed. I didn't like it and told her in front of everyone that I will drink the water myself and not give her any.. I ended up just doing that.. I think she was in shock.. the friends where kinda laughing not sure.. eventually they left.. she excused herself to the bathroom to take a piss and get a glass of water for herself and then texted me that she loves me a ton.. she claims that the crew was trying to get my attention when i walked into the bar to see if i can bring a few beers which I didn't hear and then the whole joke came up of just calling me as a waiter..

everything was cool then this morning she mentioned it again and she is upset that i got upset that I didn't laugh with her and it wasn't her intention.. she mentioned that if I didn't feel like a waiter I would have just went along with it and laugh with her.. I normally can easily agree and amplify.. just didn't feel like it was appropriate this time

my question is do you guys think I acted ok? or better to have just smiled go along with the joke and then mention something to her at the end of the night when we are alone.. she continues to maintain that she never intended to bring me down and that she loves me and it was just a joke.. I felt like I might have put her down (and thats the last thing I want to do) by drinking the water and just not shrugging it off and just made things worse and might have come across butt-hurt.. but I didn't yell I was calm the whole time.. did I over react here?