What should I know before my FIRST DATE EVER?

Tommy_Tukyuk · 2016-11-10T07:18:25+00:00

Be confident but not cocky.
Make good body language (eye contact, posture, smile).
When she is talking, actually listen to her instead of thinking up what to say next. It will eventually flow through you.
Be honest, be yourself.

Some topics to talk about:

Family (Parents, siblings, background, where did she grow up)
Occupation
Recreation (Festivals, sports, activities)
Dreams (Travel, career)

Topics you should avoid:

Weight
Exes
Religion
Abortion
Politics
Economics

It's normal to feel a bit nervous. She will probably be more concerned about how she is portraying herself so don't worry too much. Good luck!

2016-11-10T07:48:46+00:00

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2016-11-10T06:10:36+00:00

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wilson911021 · 2016-11-10T08:03:31+00:00

I have the same question, gonna ask a girl out tomorrow. wish me luck!

Foregone_Destruction · 2016-11-10T11:19:05+00:00

You should always have (sugar free) chewing gum on you for fresh breath.

Dont overdress.

Get to know your locations beforehand.

Split the bill, youre not her ticket for free food and drinks. Consider this date to be her chance to be part of your awesome life; you dont waste money on girls you barely know.

ProtagonistForHire · 2016-11-10T13:42:35+00:00

Shower. Shave. Poop. Wear nice clothes. Use deodorant. Have extra cash.

2016-11-10T14:34:08+00:00

This is my main advice to you for your mindset.

Expect a litlle from her, she has to impress you a little. Be the buyer, not the seller. You are the prize. Take this with a bit of humour. Don't try to sell yourself, make her sell herself in a subtle way. Women love it when a man has some standards. Don't make it too hard for her though.
Keep it fun

2016-11-10T07:04:08+00:00

Have a drink with her and most important have fun.

Sparta4life · 2016-11-10T16:30:53+00:00

Thank you for the great advice everybody . You are the best people ever. :)

Title	What should I know before my FIRST DATE EVER?
Author	Sparta4life
Upvotes	18
Comments	14
Date	November 10, 2016 5:39 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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