How do I tell what this girl is thinking?

2016-11-11T06:42:28+00:00

Omg I think you're a huge pussy. Definition of "nice guy."

I hate the following:

How do I tell what this girl is thinking?

and I gave her some comfort and a little pep talk.

we started texting a little. A little flirting, and I thought it was pretty good. We Skype for an hour and then we just stop texting. I asked what's up

I think it could be related to me waving at her when I thought she was walking to her class when she wanted a hug, but I don't know. I don't see why that would be a huge deal. Tips?

You're being a fucking girl! Don't talk to her for hours, or text, or try to guess what she's thinking. Get a fucking life. Meditate. Talk to her in person, leave texting for meeting up only. You're making yourself needy as fuck. She's probably gonna put you in "boyfriend" category IF you're lucky, which means you'll probably need money and this also means she might feel pressured or anxious about seeing you. Now you probably won't fuck for a long time unless you definitely get into boyfriend category, if you don't you'll be friendzoned or rejected. You would have been better off talking little, and trying to fuck asap, so you become her lover, then move that to boyfriend slowly, but now you're needy and she has all the power.

longstroke313 · 2016-11-11T06:16:28+00:00

let me guess, she's between 19 and 21. right?

2016-11-11T13:07:54+00:00

Grab her by the pussy!!!

TheXXL · 2016-11-11T07:07:04+00:00

Last time I posted, I got some really great answers,

Since I already read your post, I wonder what those replies told you...

so I'm hoping you guys can come through for me again.

Not sure if you will like what I have to say, but I'll try to give you the best advice I can.

So, I met a girl and we kinda hit it off. Or so I thought. Immediately after I started catching feelings for her, her and someone else got together.

Alright, this happens and shows that she wasn't into you at all.

Fast forward a couple months, and they broke up. She was super nervous to confront him, and I gave her some comfort and a little pep talk.

Mhmm... Let me guess, you thought "yes!!!! Now I can show her that I am the guy she wants!!!!"?

After she broke it off, we started texting a little. A little flirting, and I thought it was pretty good.

Just like you though you hit it off with each other? Don't get me wrong here, and I also have to admit that I have no idea what's really going on with you both, but from my perspective this looks like you want to believe.

We Skype for an hour and then we just stop texting. I asked what's up and heard nothing back.

You filled her need for company, and being the great gay best friend you are, you served your purpose.

I think it could be related to me waving at her when I thought she was walking to her class when she wanted a hug, but I don't know. I don't see why that would be a huge deal. Tips?

And by there you go again... Thinking and thinking and thinking. Thats not inherently bad, but the way you think is. First off: she just broke up. Give her space! Secondly, do you really want to be her rebound guy? Then, think of it critically, you talked her though this breakup, don't wonder if she comes at you telling you how much of a manipulative asshole you are. It doesn't even matter if that was your intention, and be honest, you told her to do it am i right?

Then another thing that crossed my mind, you Skyped, and I am sure you tried your best to now get her, but guess what? If you ask her what's wrong she will tell you that you went too fat, she felt uncomfortable because you are just such good friends... And how she just got out of a relationship etc. And who says that she is not totally ashamed that her ex came at her and convinced her to be together with him again, to which she agreed?

I hate to break it to you, but those are real possibilities and very likely. The only way to know for sure is to talk to her. Prepare for a broken heart, since that is the 99.99% outcome of this. She won't be with you, just like she got together with someone else last time you tried.

You really should go out more, meet more women, have fun and forget this girl she is nothing special. Trust me. You will do yourself a favor if you just forget, or friendzone her.

Title	How do I tell what this girl is thinking?
Author	throw_awayyy628
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	November 11, 2016 6:12 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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