I think girls are attracted but scared of me

Tommy_Tukyuk · 2016-11-13T09:47:29+00:00

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edeogho · 2016-11-13T10:20:10+00:00

I feel you dude. I used to have major social anxiety, overanalyzing and all but I only recently started to realize I had potential with girls, which also made me sound like a pretentious douchebag when I tried to talk about it with friends or on forums. No worries about that.

The biggest problem I see in your post is your social anxiety causing you to overanalyze social behaviour and not finding yourself confident enough in your attractiveness. I've been there.

Can you tell us more about your S.A? How bad is it? Have you been formally diagnosised? No need to get graphic, I don't want to wake up bad memories (yet again, I've been there) just tell us concisely what you usually feel in social situations. Is it with girls only?

2016-11-13T16:42:53+00:00

Talk to her, it's the only way to know for sure what she thinks. Don't be creepy.

2016-11-13T12:12:30+00:00

She is definitely somewhat interested. However, she is also scared of rejection, being outed, being seen as a slut. That's why your job as a man is to get to have a normal conversation with her, and enable her to become more interested in you and escalate with you in isolation, where she can't be judged.

Title	I think girls are attracted but scared of me
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	0
Comments	8
Date	November 13, 2016 8:47 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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