What's up seddit? I've been reading about seduction for a while and have decided the best course of action right now is to work on myself as it seems I'm the common denominator in my last few shitty relationships. From what I can see the best path to seduction is to just live an awesome life, and that means having a good social circle. What I'm realizing is that I struggle with making new guy friends, especially those who have their shit together. I just always feel awkward initiating contact or asking dudes to hang out, like I'm gonna come off as gay or weak or something. It's like that movie I Love You, Man where the whole joke is the bromance between the main characters and how awkward it is to make a new friend.

What's going on here, is it all in my head? Is this a product of our own homophobia in the 21st century? Are we all that insecure in our masculinity? What is a guy to do to meet other guys and not feel awkward the whole damn time?