Should you ever use the phrase "I wanna get to know you better / get to know what you're like" or is it too cringy?

Suavementeeee · 2016-11-15T16:19:59+00:00

Its's not what you say, it's how you say it.

2016-11-15T15:40:51+00:00

Do u, loverboy. If she reacts negatively, make a joke about how she's breaking your heart.

2016-11-15T15:48:56+00:00

Great approach. It can only be needy if your tone is needy. If your tone is fun, alpha, she will eat it up.

pathe1 · 2016-11-15T16:11:00+00:00

Not sure.

The confusing thing about 'game' is that there is so much information and lots of rules, that it would follow that certain things are 'wrong' to say, and certain things are 'right'.

But then, in the same breath, we are often told on seddit ''It doesn't matter what you say, but it's how you say it''

And then, recently there was a thread about what the 'correct' response to ''what sort of girls do you like'' should be. In it, one of the mods made it clear that unless the answer followed a specific PUA philosophy, then it was garbage/wrong.

So i'm as confused as anyone!

I often wonder in my interactions with girls ''was that the right thing to say?''

Also, if you watch pickup vids by different people, some of them have a COMPLETELY different vibe, which naturally shapes the sentences that come out of their mouths, yet they are all 'coaches' and so presumably know their stuff and do well with girls.

I imagine some of them would say sentences that the other wouldn't ever dream of saying and would think it was 'needy' or 'clowny' or 'cringey' or whatever

2016-11-15T16:26:17+00:00

Depends on the context. Why say that though when you can just do it? You want to get to know her better? Good, then ask her out.

2016-11-16T07:58:48+00:00

text this instead: AY YO GURL, LEMME HOLLA AT YA, U WANT SUM FUK?

Title	Should you ever use the phrase "I wanna get to know you better / get to know what you're like" or is it too cringy?
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Date	November 15, 2016 3:25 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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