Idk what it is with me and not being able to keep a girls interest. Yes I get AA(Approach Anxiety) and EA(Escalation Anxiety) But I have GA(General Anxiety) and have been going to therapy so I know how to combat that feeling very well to the point I can ignore it and almost not feel it at all. When I go out I can get girls attention, I can flirt, keep eye contact, kino, all that. Sometimes I'll sneak a kiss in or dance on the dance floor with a girl I locked eyes w/ accords the room. But I can't keep a girls attention worth SHIT. I'm a pretty big guy. African American, 5'9 @238 lbs but if you were to ask anyone I look like I'm 200 of muscle and a little bit fat but I'm still very built/somewhat athletic. Picture a smaller Eddie lacey(I use to play football). I try to be as interesting as fuck to make up for how much I weighed a year ago(Fat 275). I'm in a well known fraternity on campus, I love to be active, I have hobbies(Programming, but to my surprise this works in my advantage because I don't look like the type to fuck w/ computers. most girls know how smart you have to be, the amount of money you could make, and I have a plan to reach my career goal so I think it makes me look more mature I have my head straight).

But no matter what I do I can't seem to close. I've made out with girls, flirted, dance, gotten so many numbers. But they never stick around. It's been almost 3 years since I've last had sex with a different girls and I'm getting frustrated. I'm confident, my therapist even said I'm so nonchalant with everything and people always say I never lose my cool no matter how desperate a situation gives. If I have all these things going for me why does no girl want to fw me? Part of me could care less but it's starting to get to me cause I don't know what to do or what I'm doing wrong.

EDIT: I'm also 19 in my 3rd semester of college