Had a crush on a girl. She just became single

PUA_Mobius · 2016-12-03T07:30:13+00:00

Generally a woman very quickly sizes up a guy based on his value within seconds to days of meeting him. You've known her for much longer so she already had the "would I sleep with him? Y/N" checkbox in her mind marked. You just don't know which it's marked on.

If your friend "let slip" that you "like her" and she hasn't made obvious efforts to get your attention after hearing that - odds are slim but the only real way to know for sure is to ask her out.

No, this doesn't mean "wanna get dinner?" Or "let's catch a movie" or something obviously date like that if taken as a date attempt with the "N" checked off in her head may hurt your friendship. Instead, coffee or a walk is preferred. Gauge her enthusiasm. Does she jump at the idea and start suggesting days/times that it could happen, or is she aloof about it? If she's aloof, all is still not lost. If you manage to get this coffee/walk rolling you should gauge her in person when you've got time to yourselves, if she's still aloof at this stage, talking about other guys, etc - you're in the friendzone.

Don't dismay though the friendzone is a powerful tool in social circle game that can result in even more success than if you sleep with this one girl

Title	Had a crush on a girl. She just became single
Author	Do_things_wrong
Upvotes	1
Comments	2
Date	December 3, 2016 6:35 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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