Hello, long time lurker here.

So for my whole life I been having a hard time with girls. Growing up I had lots of insecurity's, some of which were related to me being overweight. I have also suffered from Anxiety and mild depressions. I have in the last years decided to make a change to my life and not live life by the sidelines. This has included seeing a psychologist and working out and so on and im now in a much better place when it comes to these things.

During my teenage years I have always had lots of friends and been invited to things and I have always been able to make lots of girl friends, despite the fact of me being a bit introverted and having a hard time talking with people I don't know. I would describe myself as pretty good looking, and its probably this fact that have made it possible to get with a girl at all. To this day I have been able to sleep with five girls initial. Also including one long time girlfriend. But after ending things with this girl things have not been going to well for me.

Today I got accepted into my dream university so after new years I will be moving to a university city where 50% of the population goes to university so this will be a great chance to meet lots of new people. Given this new opportunity I really want to make a change and start being more social with girls. I have up to this point pretty much only worked on myself to postpone the point at which I actually have to step out of my comfort zone. I work out 4-5 times a week, I dress well and regularly get compliments on the way I dress from both men and females in my surrounding. I also take very good care of myself, I eat well, get haircuts regularly and so on.

I have read a lot of the things being recommended on here including Models and I would say that I always have been doing lots of the things he talks about in the book when it comes to being passionate about different subjects and widen my knowledge in things that might not interest me at the moment! (In the works of watching every IMDB top 250 movies atm). I would describe myself as quite intellectual and in possession of a good portion of common sense. But when it comes to women im completely lost and I don't know what to do. Basically every single girl I have gotten up to this point have been on there initiation. But I can't stand this anymore and I want to be in charge of my own life and stop being friendzoned by all of these girls.

So given all of this where should I start? How do I get over this fear of talking to girls that im attracted to with the intention of not being her friend? Once I get to know the girls I don't have any problems of talking to them and so on. As an example I got to know these two very good looking sisters from school recently and even thou we only have known eatchother for a few weeks one of them keeps asking me what I will do this weekend and so on. I think I have a problem with showing intent and taking initiatives?

TL:DR completely lost with girls, moving to a new city want to change. Where do I start and how do I get over my anxiety when it goes to talking to girls I am interested in?

Sorry for the wall of text! Any pointers or anything at all is much appreciated! This sub have already helped me so much, thank you! <3