how can i ask a girl with a boyfriend to hang out as friends without letting on that i like her?

Flarpflipple · 2016-12-22T19:59:11+00:00

Sounds like your emotions are confusing you. I'd just stay away, man.

1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v · 2016-12-22T20:03:14+00:00

Act like you don't know she has a BF. Just ask her to hang out sometime, like you would anybody else. When\If she brings up the BF, just tell her, "Oh, that's OK, I just wanna be friends for now anyway..."

DustyBawls1 · 2016-12-22T20:31:08+00:00

Just don't. Be friends with someone whose not taken eventually your feelings will take over and you'll step in home wrecker territory

BestSC86 · 2016-12-22T21:23:25+00:00

Invite both of them to something....

Honestly though it does not sound like you are being honest with yourself about your interest in this girl...I would wager that you really like her as more than a "friend". That is understandable but trying to hide and pretend is going to make your actions awkward and questionable.

Better to just ask her to hang out as you would a regular girl.....likely with a BF, she will reject you but at least in her mind you are a viable dating option for when her current relationship crashes and burns....which at 17 is likely to be anywhere from next week to Valentines Day.

Going your route will only have her thinking of you as another of her girlfriends and she will not be interested in you when she goes looking for her next BF.

MindsEvolve · 2016-12-22T21:32:23+00:00

I think you have to assume she's a girl and like most girls, she can read your thoughts. She already knows you like her. Especially at this age. If you can make plans with her, then go for it. Clearly, she's willing to give you a chance since she already knows you like her. If she's in fact serious about the other guy, then she'll say no.

JChinggg1 · 2016-12-22T21:41:07+00:00

If you want to get to know her on a strictly platonic level you should hang out in a group setting where intention won't easily be misconstrued. If you're solely attempting to get to know her for the swoop than don't get to know her at all. I'm sure many of us have been in that situation and it generally does not end out very well. Don't be that guy.

Title	how can i ask a girl with a boyfriend to hang out as friends without letting on that i like her?
Author	Sofmaster
Upvotes	0
Comments	9
Date	December 22, 2016 7:57 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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