Made out with a girl at a party. Now she's very passive. What to do?

ThatNolanKid · 2016-12-24T23:47:09+00:00

Are you in any country that celebrates Christmas? Cause it's Christmas Eve.

That being said, you need to make yourself less available. Texting back too much or too soon is a thing, and by doing so you very much come off as needy.

Look at the situation: you text her, she doesn't respond very soon or very extensive, and you're left here wondering why she isn't giving you the attention you want. You want it to be the other way around.

Two things need to happen in order for this to work. The first one is out of your hands unfortunately; she has to actually be interested in you enough to want your attention. The second is you really need to make yourself less available. Keep yourself busy, go to the gym, go out with friends, talk to other girls/go on dates. If she gets wind of this she may think to herself "hey why isn't he giving me all that attention anymore? How can I get that attention back?"

And that's how it happens. It doesn't always work, but the point is to always be interested and talking to new people, dating, and eventually something sticks. Don't put anyone on the pedestal, don't ever prematurely develop "one-itis."

Beast___Mode · 2016-12-24T23:52:10+00:00

Man, keep your messages same as hers. Late responses, do late responses too

Short messages from her? Be cool and type short messages as well

And never text her if she will ignore you! Don't be needy, that's the biggest mistake you can make.

Honestly, on your place I would move on. She was drunk bro, she is now embarrassed. Girls when they drunk, especially on the parties have different state of mind. However, as soon as reality comes she will have totally different mood.

From my experience, girls who send shitty unmotivated messages, are those who don't worth it.

Title	Made out with a girl at a party. Now she's very passive. What to do?
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Date	December 24, 2016 11:27 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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