How unrealistic are some of the things I've heard about social life after school?

jsbach123 · 2016-12-27T22:50:04+00:00

Once you're out of college, it's harder to socialize simply because you're outside that intense concentration of peers. So it's a numbers game. Your new peer group will likely be coworkers which is a much small pool than a college campus and will comprise of people different from you.

Furthermore, there are certain things you cannot get away with in a workplace.

That being said, life is what you make of it. Even if attending the ultimate party school, someone can find it boring because the person is boring. Very much reminds me of Elliott Rodger, the ultimate loner who shot up UC Santa Barbara, a super party school.

G_Refined · 2016-12-27T23:42:57+00:00

Every major city has people that go out on a regular basis that are no longer in school. Dude in major city's there are large groups of friends that go out often, are looking to make new friends, and the hookup culture is alive and kicking into their 50's!

How hard would it be to get into that crowd? Not hard at all, and it's not just one crowd, there are multiple social circles like that in cities. Go out and socialize, join a drinking kickball league, go on like brewery tours. People that like to go out and hook up on a regular basis like to drink so do things or go to events that involve drinking and partying and make friends. Those friends will introduce you to new friends and you will eventually find a group you click with.

Title	How unrealistic are some of the things I've heard about social life after school?
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Date	December 27, 2016 9:51 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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