I can put the girl of my dreams in front of me and my dick wont get up; yet, you put some random girl and I cant stop fucking her. WHAT DO I DO???

Tophat_and_Poncho · 2017-01-02T01:31:40+00:00

Could be slight anxiety or nervousness. The first time was just that, a pretty girl and a part of you was nervous and eager to perform and suddenly the pressure got the best.

This only gets worse cause the second time, not only are you nervous to perform, you are thinking of the last time.

Try not to put it all on the line, if it doesn't happen then be honest with her, and at the same time don't let things end. Just cause you can't get hard remember that there are two people. Less you is more her.

If some time during that it recovers then great, if not, then just have fun and next time you will feel calmer.

2017-01-02T01:40:19+00:00

Woo performance anxiety. Has happened to me on several occasions. Still does too every once in a while. One intrusive negative thought can completely kill things. The thing is that success breeds confidence and lessens the occurrence of it happening. Getting those first successes though is the tough part.

Things that have helped me: small amounts (1-3 drinks) of alcohol, cannabis, cock ring. Also, confidence in your ability to get a girl off without having to use your dick. Just knowing that you'll still be able to satisfy a girl even if your dick doesn't cooperate can be helpful for your mental state by itself.

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