I know its a strange question but How do i become interesting for myself?

JefemanG · 2017-01-02T22:24:28+00:00

That's really a broad question. What may be interesting to you is boring to me. For instance, I really couldn't care less about big, lavish trips you took to foreign countries. Many find that interesting, I find it really boring. Girls are no different. What may be interesting to one is not to another. You need to do what you find fun/interesting that isn't extreme. For instance, I really enjoy dancing. Most girls can't/won't dance except grinding on dudes. I like salsa/bachata/tango, which is hard to find people who think it's interesting. I also love cars. Most girls don't give 2 shits about cars, but like that I have passion for something.

Find what you think is fun and interesting. It will naturally flow in conversation and if it makes you happy, it will make others happy.

JacintaAnal · 2017-01-02T22:45:53+00:00

I think when questions like these come up, it's important to stand back and asses yourself. One thing I have been able to do lately is assess myself, physically and mentally, when you wake up in the morning just ask yourself how you feel physically (start from your toes) I feel like my stomach is hungry - some food will help that I feel like my joints are stiff - some stretching will help that I feel not quite awake yet - some coffee or a cold shower will help that I feel like my eyes are dry - I will wash my eyes out Once you have assessed your needs and found a solution physically, you can find a key to happiness (think of it like The Sims), then do the same mentally. Today I feel a little bit sad - I will treat myself to some xbox I feel a little bit lethargic - A run will make me feel better I feel uninterested - my daily course in Spanish will make me feel more enticed

My point to all this is that you need to be able to be on peak with your needs and then you will be able to find the things that you enjoy and are interesting. I will also leave you with one note, be weird, enjoy the things that YOU enjoy and don't care what other people think.

Title	I know its a strange question but How do i become interesting for myself?
Author	AragorntheMighty
Upvotes	4
Comments	2
Date	January 2, 2017 9:39 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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