How best to tastefully use wealth/social status to your advantage?

ShallITinder · 2017-01-07T21:12:45+00:00

You use it to put yourself into good situations instead of bad ones by having logistics work in your favor. Buy an apartment in the more fun part of the city, move to the fun cities if you can, go to places where more attractive women are going to be (hint: it has to do with wealth), and try not to flash your wealth around at all.

The poor guy is stuck in a small town or in a bad part of a city with rough logistics. The poor guy is stuck in an area full of ugly women because most attractive women go to the better areas of town. By being wealthy, you use your wealth to put yourself in the better parts of a city and make friends with other well to do men, eventually you'll be invited to more exclusive events and be in your own little bubble.

adittya5 · 2017-01-07T20:56:39+00:00

If you just be yourself and avoid letting others opinions dictate actions you make, then you won't come off as cocky

jsbach123 · 2017-01-08T00:38:56+00:00

90% of game is self-esteem. If you love yourself and have a good outlook on life, it will show in everything you say and do.

So you should know, your need to impress someone will utterly destroy your self esteem because it's a tact admission that you're not good enough, that she's the prize, and that you're just the lowly suitor who needs to win her. Women are particularly good at sensing when a guy seeks her approval and has an agenda. It's not a good idea to think you can impress her with wealth without her knowing exactly what your'e up to.

That's why I think your mindset needs to change. If you believe you are the prize, then you wouldn't need to impress her. And ironically, this makes you more attractive. Men who are attractive are attractive...they don't have to sell themselves to prove it.

It's time men stop thinking they need money and status to get women. Most of us knew guys in college who were banging chicks left and right despite being a broke, starving student. I do not believe nerdy Google employees pulling six-figures are banging more girls than idealistic/artist types who earn far less.

Lastly, just re-read your post. You're asking how to subtly convey wealth...then you ask how to avoid gold diggers. Do you not see the contradiction?

asiasocialite · 2017-01-08T16:29:54+00:00

I love this question and it truly isn't asked enough in the pick up community.

I have gamed with dudes that come from lower class background backgrounds, middle class and upper class. The truth is the guys that do the absolute best usually come from one of the extremes.

So the dudes that are lower class find a way to get a couple of nice pieces of clothing and then develop this millionaire playboy type of personality.

They grew up with so little, if they wanted to get to the top, they knew they would have to develop a powerful personality. They have nothing to fall back on. Then they start to really crush it with girls. Its amazing.

At the same time, I have close friends that are millionaire entreperneurs. They have this same type of persoanlity. But they also have an amazing lifestyle to back it up.

What I have seen both of them exhibit is their ability to indirectly display their wealth.

For example one may say " Wow, I love your jacket. It reminds me of Barcelona style. I was their last month and everyone was so colorful. It was very beautiful.. have you been?"

Instead of saying "I have my own business and I travelled to Spain".

Or they will add the girl on INstagram during the conversation. Immediately she can see pictures of his apartment, his car, past travel destinations.

I hate the term but these are signs of status. Also when she is pointing out how awesome his life is,, he will downplay it. Like "Yeah the apartment is nice but I need something closer to the beach".

This is very important. Because it shows that he doesnt rely on his wealth to attract great people into his life. Of course it helps but one realizes money is not everything. The same is true of the lower class Pick UP Guy. Both know it is foolish to rely on concrete objects and put all of their energy into displaying abstract wealth as in being funny, giving value, offering connections and a great time to the girl.

Keep this in mind. Money and amazing women are connected to the Laws of Attraction. Pick Up in general taps into these truths.

Have the Wealth inside and then watch it make its way to you.

Sizzleen · 2017-01-08T16:47:15+00:00

i struggle with this. I almost always make a lot more money than the men i date but i dont want to be used for money, so i hide it. But i also dont like for them to pay for me- i prefer to take turns. I wouldnt get serious with a man making less than 6 figures because i already got swindled once (by my exhusband) but how do i find a guy making that kind of money without seeming like a gold digger? I make 6 figures myself but dont want to go around announcing it, of course.

Title	How best to tastefully use wealth/social status to your advantage?
Author	sredaer
Upvotes	9
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Date	January 7, 2017 8:16 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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