So basically I have been trying like hell to swallow TRP lately, but as you will see here I still need some help. I was out at a bar last night and began talking/flirting quite a bit to a very sexy girl who originally started being very blunt in telling me that I need to work harder in school because I mentioned getting kicked out blah blah yadda yadda. Anyway, she left, and before leaving, said to me "you got my number, right?" Implying that I need to hit her up. So I did, and here is how our conversation went. Please do not insult me, as I am a beginner and I am only seeking constructive criticism: Me: Hey what are you doin you goin home?
Her: Getting pizza
Me:haha me too i'm at (different pizza place)
Me:Where u at now?
Her:Home
Me:I just left pizza place wheres home?
Her:South Maine
Me:Should I come through? whats the address? if not ima just go home haha
Her:Uh no you should not... I never invited you and I'm not the kind of girl to have boys over at 2am...
Me:why you are getting defensive lol I wasn't being rude was I
her:yea
me:how so? I think ur just trying to make me mad haha
me:Im not trying to just hook up with u but if thats what u wanna think then whatever
her:then prove it
me:I want to but your just being defensive rn like I think ur cool as fuck but now ur just telling me off
Me:you are so gorgeous I would never think youre a one night stand or anything like that idk why u think that I'm that kinda guy
her:I dont I just ahve too many bad experiences so if you really want to know me youll prove me wrong. until then I will be defensive when you hit me up late night.
me:honestly ik how you feel im a guy n im hitting you up at 2 am n you prolly think im an asshole n i wanna prove im not
her:thank you
Me:i understand why your defensive but dont assume things you dont know me yet I really wanna get to know you ive never had a girl tell me i actually have dreams bla bla bla
her: ok if you really feel that way you will
Ok so I know I sent way too much to her and was just being beta in general but what do you guys think? any advice on how I could have handled this better? Should I even bother with this girl or is she just out to waste my time? Thanks guys
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