I'm going clubbing on the weekend, tell me what to do.

Minsc_and_Boo_ · 2017-02-08T15:17:14+00:00

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rathyAro · 2017-02-08T13:19:43+00:00

Be decisive. Being the wall flower that is clearly trying to think of who and how he should approach is really noticeable and offputting. Don't look for the perfect thing to say just go and say the first thing that comes to mind. My go to is "how's your night going?" which has had varying levels of success.

I haven't personally mastered the dance floor game, but what I've seen work is trying to have fun and then bringing a girl into thw fun you're having in a genuine way. Example1: me and girl both here our song come on and start belting the lyrics, we both notice each other singing, and I pull her in to sing with me. Example2: dude is doing his thing on the dance floor and my friend(female) can't help but observe. He gestures to clear the crown between them and they actually move. Then he pulls her in by tugging on an imaginary rope. She had a bf but she had to at least dancw with him cuz that shit was hilarious.

MindsEvolve · 2017-02-08T19:24:28+00:00

Pre-game your social skills / Warm Up Socially - What does this mean? Get into good conversations with your friends or anyone really before you even go out. This will help your social brain activate itself before throwing yourself into the jungle.
Go into the club where you're at emotionally - You can't fake being the happiest person in the world. Let yourself slowly climb there if you have to. If you're in a good enough place to begin with, then try to be social - talk to the bouncer on the way in and crack a joke etc.
Don't feel pressured to approach until you're ready - Get a sense of the room, and come up with a strategy. Identify your targets - the girls YOU want to talk to.
Once you're ready, approach with INTENT. "My goal is to invite this group etc."

Most of all, make it about you having a good time. You don't have to get a laid to have a good night.

PM me if you want some extra guidance.

2017-02-08T20:28:21+00:00

Pretend you own the club. This will give you an air of authority and confidence. And it will give you a reason to walk around and mingle with people. I had some success with it back in the day.

2017-02-09T03:56:21+00:00

Have fun. Pull chicks if you can, but focus on enjoying yourself.

Title	I'm going clubbing on the weekend, tell me what to do.
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Date	February 8, 2017 1:04 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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