How do you make girl want to do sexual things for you? (Send you naughty pics, be slutty, do kinky things, etc.)

zeny_two · 2014-09-10T00:31:58+00:00

Tell her what to do. "Show me your panties" works fine for getting naughty pics via text. "Get on the floor. No hands allowed. Etc.." for sex. They like being told what to do, it turns them on. A woman who likes you wants to please you, so telling her your desires is a good start.

The key to getting them to repeat/enjoy it is to reward positive behavior. She needs to know it makes you happy. Nothing big. A smile, kiss, "good girl," or little compliment will do.

With new girls, I get permission to ask "personal questions," then ask sexual questions. Do you like having your hair pulled during sex? Being choked? What about being slapped? Spit on? Called degrading names? You get the idea. If they say yes to my kinks, I let my intrigue show. By the end, they understand that I want a dirty girl, so that's how they behave

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AlphaAsFAQ · 2014-09-09T23:24:33+00:00

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HardPillToSwallow · 2014-09-09T22:20:30+00:00

I would also like to know how other RPers do this. Its something I've always wanted to try but been unable to figure out for some time.

Do you just flirtily ask? I'd love an example.

Keninishna · 2014-09-10T02:20:23+00:00

The way I've done it is make her feel comfortable with her body. Don't critisize anything about her body at all times just compliment and act non judgemental. Flirt and be sexual. Some girls will just send you pics but sometimes its good to be assertive and ask for them when you have enough rapport/attraction. At least thats how I got the tons of nudes from girls I've met.

RPstudent · 2014-09-10T04:21:34+00:00

Step 1 - be attractive

Step 2 - don't be unattractive

Step 3 - tell her to do whatever sexual thing you want her to do, confidently and with an air of amusement

Step 4 - maintain frame

[deleted] · 2014-09-10T00:27:30+00:00

As soon as they need your attention they do things like ask about hanging out. Or organizing a trip out. Or a party. Or going on a date or... Just kidding.

They start sending nudes because it's all they've got.

rufusjonz · 2014-09-10T02:39:40+00:00

I find it normally pretty easy to get a sexy/topless/ass/nude pic from most chicks pretty early on, i just ask. I tell them i'm into pics, which i am, and want one from them. Or take them myself when I'm with them. Some won't do it or only a tame one, but many do. Some will send you pics unprompted when they know you like them.

Same basic thing with sex, being slutty, mild kinky etc. Tell them what you want. That's not usually a problem for me personally. Speaking more of in the early stages of dating a woman.

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SinisterSwindler · 2014-09-12T17:47:28+00:00

Before I've ever received pics or videos from girls I've always had a checklist of requirements they had to meet;

I've fucked them; usually after I have sex with a girl it's a done deal for me. They become sex slaves and crave the cock like no other. This is all in part to how much attention I pay to their bodies during sex. For this I recommend learning how to kiss a girls body passionately and how to finger her and stimulate her gspot. Usually 2-3 orgasms and they're hooked. Even better if they've never orgasmed before. When they cum the release oxytocin and become hooked. It's like a drug to them. After the 3rd time I fuck them I cuddle the shit outta them too. But ONLY after I fuck them. Apart from that I treat them very coldly. (Edit: coldly isn't the right word. Just not as affectionate when we aren't having sex. Like a push as pull technique)
Keep Texts short from the start; make sure you always keep your words to a bare minimum. Less is more. If step 1 is complete and you're short too she will be even more desperate for your attention and will do anything you say.
Film her or take pictures of her during sex; you have to be gentle in how you bring this up. I love to do it after having gone down on them because then they feel like they owe you. I just say, "lemme film me fingering you". I even have them hold the camera. Then after they're ok being naked in front of the camera you can film the bjs or sex or anything. And once you film them, you can then go to step 4
At this point the girl craves your attention. Knows you can be loving and affectionate but only after she fucks you. And she knows you can make her cum on command. With my SO I've made her cum 15+ through just g spot stimulation so I really recommend you learn that. It's gamechanger. My ex and I's record was 27 and she passed out after 22 and would only wake up to orgasm. Anyways now, all you have to do is bring up sex and some naughty talk. Then say, mm baby send me some pics. Or mm baby I would love a video of you right now". It's easy once you learn the gist of it.

Hope this helps!

bobbybluepill · 2014-09-09T23:18:36+00:00

I'd like some advice on this too. I've had it work for me before, and here's how:

I explain that other girls have done it and that I think it's hot.
She messes up and I go No Contact. Usually, there's a 20% chance that some nudes will come my way.

I've also been successful when my ex got caught cheating and wanted to "make things work again." I told her I needed to be sexually satisfied and that some nudes would help. Additionally, since I could show them to mutual friends if I wanted, I'd view it as insurance that she wouldn't cheat on me if I gave her a 2nd chance. This was extremely Beta behavior, so I don't recommend anyone do this. I'm just sharing what else has worked.

In case you're wondering, I've never shown the ex's nudes to my friends and I don't ever look at them. It's almost like a bottle of poison I keep around--I know where the USB key is that I keep them on, but I also know that if I look at them I'd be reactivating my Oneitis for my ex.

binrobinro · 2014-09-10T01:21:45+00:00

Be fit, charming, funny, smart, clean, and well dressed.

ArcadeGoon · 2014-09-10T02:08:32+00:00

This is retarded.

Title	How do you make girl want to do sexual things for you? (Send you naughty pics, be slutty, do kinky things, etc.)
Author	StarDestinyGuy
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Date	September 9, 2014 10:00 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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