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Holy Fuck, Seddit, I Just Had A HUGE Breakthrough With This One Girl

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February 16, 2017

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Title	Holy Fuck, Seddit, I Just Had A HUGE Breakthrough With This One Girl
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	February 16, 2017 4:58 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/5uctr3/holy_fuck_seddit_i_just_had_a_huge_breakthrough/
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[–]Aeon199 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

[–]lonewolf-chicago 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

How about just getting to know a person? 6 or 7 paragraphs in a row in the span of 5 minutes is a HUGE jump from one or two word replies in the span of a day.

Remember that a lot of self-improvement and game is about self-discovery and experimentation. I would put $50 on the table that if I would've asked this sub if "how're you doing?" was a good opener 9/10 of the comments would be telling me how bland or "non-escalating" a question like that is, which is retarded.

Come to think of it, most of your reply doesn't answer nearly anything I was getting at in my post, I am sorry if it was a lot of my own rambling or not clear enough. When I said the question opened the floodgates, it was a complete breakthrough to this girl and I finally saw her letting some of her guard down to me. That is what it leads to. You cannot honestly believe that a girl will just jump on your dick if she doesn't feel secure with you or trusts you.

What "results" are you referring to that doesn't fall under the category I've described in my post? And when did I ever make the quote in my post, "more conversation about boring stuff like cars"? Please do not make up things that I never said. When I say personal things, that does not mean she was talking about exes and relationship woes. I don't know what instance caused you to irrationally jump to that topic after I mentioned the word "personal" but I'm saying she actually spoke to me like another human being.

I'm going to be honest with you, your post doesn't come anywhere close to the point I was making in mine. Maybe that's due to the fact that my post wasn't explained well or wasn't clear enough, but the main gist of my thread was to describe an instance where confidently moving forward with my instincts had results that beat out all the tips and advice I've ever picked up here on Seduction.

[–]Aeon199 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's understandable, considering I jump to stupid conclusions all the time. Just this weekend I left a party early because after 2 YEARS of hanging around these people and receiving less and less invites from them did I realize they really do not like me that much, and I don't like them that much either. (I also found out from SnapChat later that they had a HUGE party going way before my one friend invited me, and what I went to was the very late table scraps and they were all piss-drunk by that point anyways. Isn't that just dandy?)

As for your situation there, I think it's good she did that right away with you, it shows you that she was probably psycho, hadn't let go her old relationship, wasn't sure what she wanted, etc. It would've been a colossal waste of time for you to engage in that relationship.

It's hard for people like you and I dealing with people, because you and I (I assume) both grew up in very sheltered homes, but we also do not have the balls to know when we don't need to give a fuck about what anyone else thinks or answer to anyone else but ourselves, especially since we want to improve ourselves.