So I've been subbed here on seddit for several months (different account) trying to learn game and improve myself as a man. For reference, I'm 21, work BOH at a restaurant with many pretty women, and study at a large university with a plethora of women.

Improving myself is coming along nicely. I'm confident, talk to people, laugh with people, eye contact, I SMILE, and try to just do me and enjoy myself. Naturally, I decided I would start the 100 set challenge. To clarify, to me, a set is approaching a girl, initiating conversation, and taking it any farther than is a win - with intent on getting a phone number, snapchat, setting up a date instant date, etc. I even made a spreadsheet last night for my first day of approaches today.

I've only had sex with two girls, and the last time was in July. Before that, August 2014. The thing is, I know I'm bad at it. Well I'm alright, but I finish quickly and want to fix that with practice, because I know I can and will. I believe practice makes perfect, which is the biggest reason why I've put myself on this path in the first place: to get better at sex. Keep in mind, that is my long term goal. My short term goal is to get laid just once. The reason I mention all of this is because I think this could be what really holds me back.

That being said, my daily goal, hence, my only goal for today, is to get my first set of the day under my belt. That is all. I don't care if the 100 set challenge takes me 100 days, I just need to get that first set done, because then they will flow, I know it.

So finally, my question is how do you get yourself to just approach a girl out of the blue? I make pretty coworkers and classmates laugh, get good vibes from them, socialize, whatever. Especially ones I don't find attractive. But I see most of them as, "I sit next to her in class," or "I see her 20 times a day, 3 days a week," just not girls I'm trying to pick up and take home, with some exceptions, who my question also applies to.

The moment my intentions become that of seduction I fall apart. I try to rationalize with everything I've read here and elsewhere. It's not what you say but how you say it, just be confident, turn the tables and validate her, you name it. But I just won't fucking nut up. I turn from a happy go lucky smiling guy to "what should I say" or "she has headphones in" when I really know it doesn't matter in the slightest.

Needless to say, I failed my daily goal today. I even walked an extra lap around campus, drove to the mall after, then another store, and never approached a single girl, and now I feel like shit.

How do you do it? What is your mindset? How does getting that first set in feel? Should I approach a less pretty girl to get the ball rolling?

tl:dr I socialize fantastically with coworkers/classmates, and know everything I need to do to approach. Be confident, say the first thing that comes to mind, etc. The moment my intentions become seduction, I freeze up and don't approach. How do I make myself do my first approach?