So this mainly applies to online dating situations but usually i exchange a few messages (by few i mean like 3 or 4) before i ask for their number to go on a date. They will usually give it to me but when I actually text them to figure out logistics for the date some of them will say things like i barely know you.

Usually I ignore these girls because i don't really want to waste my time and i always just assume these girls want attention or something but i always wonder what opportunities I'm wasting because i am too lazy to keep the conversation going.

So i guess what I'm asking is what do i say/do (without doing the boring small talk type questions) to make these types of ladies more comfortable with me so they will actually go out with me?