Ok so I am 17 m. I am confident in my ability to attract what I am looking for. The girl I wanted to be my girl friend turns around and makes out with my best friend while we were at prom but I didn't know that. I get told the following Monday. Now I go through your average grief cycle, blah blah blah. Now things are looking weird because before all of this we were pretty close, close enough that people thought we were dating, so I am pretty sure she was attached. Now after I get out of greif rage cycle, she comes around like lost puppy. Based on what you guys know could it be possible that I had been seducing her with these techniques with out knowing of them. I had no clue about this stuff until last night when I decided to make her mine completely. Then I drew parallels on my own. Well now I guess I want your thoughts on this.