Hey guys,

Hope I'm within the bounds of the rules here. I think this post fits the criteria for "will this post help guys meet girls?"

Some context: I'm a 25 year old virgin who is very new to this sub and dating, in general. It took me a while to care about my appearance and chances with women, but I've finally upped my fashion, grooming, social, and fitness game a bit.

I picked up online dating for the first time. Started meeting up with two different women around the same time. 3 weeks go by and I've hung out with both of them twice with nothing serious happening with either of them at all. I decided to end it with one of them because it was too much to keep up with. She seemed slightly offended when I told her the situation.

My question is: Am I in the bounds of acceptable and non-scummy behavior by seeing both women for that long? Keep in mind I'm a pretty sensitive and empathetic dude, but I thought I was doing alright considering the situation.

Not just simply looking for validation. I'd like to know so that I continue to give myself and others the best chance to meet cool women and have fun as often as possible. Happy to provide more context. Thanks!