You are enough vs You are awesome - Thoughts?

DotMage · 2017-03-30T03:48:44+00:00

There's no inherit difference between the two thoughts. They both seek to achieve better results with women.

Just like how Siddartha (in the book by Herman Hesse - Highly recommended read by the way!) realized that there are multiple paths to enlightenment, there are also multiple paths to understanding or achieving results with women. Neither of these two schools of thought are inherently better or worse than the other, they just tackle the problem in a different way.

It doesn't matter which you pick. What matters is if you believe it with full force and conviction.

Big_TX · 2017-03-30T05:22:17+00:00

stuff is not black and white and there is no ultimate way.

try both see what works best, use that. but don't take it as gospel because you may be able to evolve past it to a higher paradigm

t1mman · 2017-03-30T15:39:10+00:00

Those mindsets are good as long as they are realist, as long as you have reasons to think you are enough, or that you are awesome. And as long as you don’t think you “achieved” the “higher level of greatness” in life and you aim for constant improvement.

You also have to be realist and aware of what is truly happening. Some nights do sucks, they are not all awesome. What they are, tough, is a great learning experience, as long as you are willing to improve.

There is a nuance between knowing you are awesome because of your accomplishment, or being aware that you will manage, with no matter what life throws at you but still knowing sometimes you do suck, you are bad a some things, you can even be bad a things you master because of many factors (running a marathon while having a cold won’t get the same results as when you are in shape, for example) and thinking, in a narcissistic kind of way, that you are awesome no matter what.

Personally, I go by the mindset in the 4 agreements. I think it is more realistic.

mcrf7 · 2017-03-30T14:28:24+00:00

I like this mantra from RSDMax:

My life is already awesome.

This night is already epic.

But I wanna see where this can go.

Title	You are enough vs You are awesome - Thoughts?
Author	fishbabish
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	March 30, 2017 3:25 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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