Without changing anything, I've just been hovering around the "naturals" at work. Observing how they talk, body language, etc with girls. The girls seem to just gravitate towards it. They're also so much more polite and responsive to the naturals than me. I find the girls act kind of snobby when I talk to them. I really don't think this is a science that can be broken down and learned. You're either born with it and learn it at a young age naturally, or you're stuck with what you have and can only make minor improvements no matter how hard you work your ass off.

Anyway, I'm going to continue just hovering and attempting to learn for a few more weeks. I'm going to soak up as much as I can before trying to apply it myself.