Building the interest between dates.

BLOOFU_19 · 2017-04-12T03:24:32+00:00

Avoid chatting between dates.

Snapchat is fine, a little bit, but keep it to quirky or funny snaps, and don't make the mistake of blinging her on snap every day.

You want to maintain mystery especially in the early stages of dating. Telling her your life story, or even talking/chatting over the phone for longer than a few minutes runs the risk of things getting stale - and it's impossible to stop this effect.

Nothing beats the energy and adventure you can have with someone in person.

You are a busy guy, and don't have time to chat about nothing over the phone. If she likes to text you every day expecting in depth conversation, try to keep it to a minimum and tell her you'll tell her all about it on your date on [Tuesday]. If you don't have a date lined up, use this opportunity to tell her you're busy right now, but you would love to meet up with her on [Tuesday] at [Location] and tell her about all about it.

Building interest between dates is 99% making her wonder about you, whether or not you are interested, and what you might be doing currently. If she knows all you are doing is sitting on your ass binging Better Call Saul, it paints a distinctly unsexy picture.

Also important to note that some women will not be okay with you not chatting with them between dates. Generally speaking if she is going to cancel a date or gets upset because you aren't playing by her rules, she wasn't that into you. Consider nexting in this case- but it's your call.

In my experience, incessant texting between dates has only ruined my STR's, some of them were on a really good track before I started telling them too much about my life between dates. YMMV...

TLDR; Any messages between dates should be humorous, sexual innuendo, or a reference to the date you're going on in the near future. Stay busy and mysterious.

Austonmatthews345 · 2017-04-10T00:38:51+00:00

You won't build any interest over text or snapchat. Do yourself a favour and delete Snapchat, it's a waste of time. Set up your next date over text and that's it, if she's interested she'll go out with you again.

Title	Building the interest between dates.
Author	Shutyer_fuckhole
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	April 9, 2017 5:38 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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