Girl wants to do stuff with me at parties, but seems like shes avoiding a date.. HELP

joomla00 · 2017-04-20T21:16:49+00:00

If unsure, assume attraction. Don't think about all that, just focus on getting her to hang out one on one. If she's not biting, just next her. If she's interested and playing hard to get or something, she'll probably reach out to you.

2017-04-20T21:23:35+00:00

restaurant

Boring.

movies

Terrible.

Do you two escalate at the parties or do you just like hanging around her? You need to include this bit.

If you want to invite her out, invite her out for something interactive, fun, and mobile. Why would she skip a party, where she knows her chances of a good time are pretty high, to go sit awkwardly next to you in a movie theater? Think about her perspective here.

Restaurants are bad first dates unless you're just getting drinks or maybe dessert before doing something else. Dinner is bad because you can't escalate, you aren't doing anything, and you basically just interview each other while watching each other eat. Don't take a girl to dinner until you're already pretty comfortable together.

Movies are the worst because you literally can't interact, you're sitting uncomfortably close with an armrest between you wondering whether or not your hands should touch, the entertainment has nothing to do with either of you, and you can't get to know each other. Taking your girlfriend to see a movie is fine, but don't do them for early dates ever.

Title	Girl wants to do stuff with me at parties, but seems like shes avoiding a date.. HELP
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Date	April 20, 2017 8:52 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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