Seen a cute girl in the library and left her a note asking for her number when she went to the toilet. When she got back she opens the notes and looks at me with disgust lol I don't know what I did wrong I mean I'm a decent looking guy and wouldn't that be a compliment to her ?

Woujo · 2017-04-24T22:16:57+00:00

Leaving a girl a note is something that only works in the movies. The fact that you didn't have the balls to actually walk up to her and talk is extremely unattractive to her. Women want a guy that has confidence to walk up to them and introduce himself.

Additionally, women aren't going to just give you their number unless they've talked to you. She doesn't know you from Adam. Women need to get to know a guy before they get attracted.

LacRepressor · 2017-04-24T22:14:33+00:00

She thought it was creepy; you had to be watching her to know she went to the toilet.

Also, what you did indicates low confidence, which is unattractive.

You didn't mean for it to be creepy but that's how she perceived it.

failatsomething · 2017-04-24T23:07:29+00:00

lol quick FR on note-passing.

I was on the commuter train last week heading home from work. Crowded train. Was writing a birthday card to a friend that I was going out with that night.

Had my headphones on, but I was aware of my surroundings. There was a beautiful girl sitting across the aisle from me and I could tell she made an effort to see what it was I was writing. I looked over but she turned away.

When I was done writing the note, I took my headphones off, reached across and tapped her shoulder, and extended my hand with the card.

She took out her earbuds and I said, "Hey, so will you go out with me?"

I waited and she smiled. Then I said, "Just messing with ya. It's not a love letter. It's a birthday card for my friend. Hey, anyone ever written a love letter to you?"

"Haha, once or twice."

"Did it work? Did you go out with them after?"

"Haha once or twice."

"100 percent? Too bad I don't have another piece of paper ;)"

I go to put my headphones on...

She said, "What's your name?"

I paused putting on the headphones, put them back around my neck, and smiled, knowing I was in.

2017-04-25T00:59:46+00:00

Passing notes is kind of like shitting your pants in public. We laugh it off when children do it but it's just sad to see a grown ass man go there.

josh_gropin · 2017-04-25T02:29:41+00:00

did you at least put a check yes or no box?

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