How do you give the girl the best lay she's ever had? What are some tips and advice for foreplay and sex to be amazing with her?

true_gunman · 2017-04-28T04:35:04+00:00

Girls take a long time, guys generally are 3 pump chumps, don't be that guy.

1) Romance - details are everything, learn how to pour wine, how to set up for a romantic evening. Foreplay is more than massaging her nipples.

2) Time - A romantic evening should take time. Don't be in a hurry, she isn't.

3) Foreplay - Tease, don't just go for boobs and vag. Try moving your hand between her breasts, avoid the erogenous zones, give her hints. Don't use fingertips it feels creepy. Use your entire hand in a firm brushing motion skin to skin. Your mouth can do more than suck titties. Lots of girls respond to neck kisses, earlobe sucking, you have to just figure that out on your own what she likes, she will respond if you hit a good spot.

4) Sex - switch positions, know how to use them. Many girls take at least 10 or more minutes, so learn some control. Don't think about baseball and dead dogs to delay, be in control of your own orgasm. Pound them hard and pound them a long time. Mix in some oral sex, even a bit of stuff like titty fucking. don't go for anal, thats a no go zone unless you already know she's into it. Same thing with your fingers, don't jam one up her poop chute she will freak.

5) Be consistent with the above. If you can be a super lover she can never stray, she will never want to stray no matter what other guys offer. Make her realize this is the best sex she has ever had and she can't get it anywhere else.

pyr0phelia · 2017-04-28T21:40:34+00:00

The first thing you have to realize is there is no single 'right' answer (more below). The second part is unless you are open/poly/swing;

brag to other girls how good you are to make them possibly want you too

is not being realistic. Women outside of kink communities are prone to instantly judging each other on their promiscuity so bedroom gymnastics isn't talked about in the same manner men do it. To be fair yes, some of my non-kink friends do it but it is rare. That being said...

Define "Best lay she's ever had"? The best orgasm typically leaves her crying and unable to speak because she is completely physical and emotionally overload. However to do that you have to cross several barriers that are not possible the first time nor is it something you can do without deep emotional penetration. That is highly unlikely if your goal is multiple partners. However back to the topic at and and the physical requirements...

Step 1: Turn her on. It's more than just kissing her neck or rubbing her shoulders. Turn her on. If you don't know how to accomplish step 1, there is no point moving to step 2. Please ask if this is something you struggle with and I can recommend some books.

Step 2: Consume her physically. No part of her body should be neglected, forgotten, or ignored for any reason.

Step 3: Make her cum with your fingers and mouth. If you want to rock her world you gotta start the engine and the engine starts with making her cum first, usually 2 or 3 times but what you are looking for is for her to push you away because her clit is so sensitive that she doesn't want you to touch it anymore and needs a break.

Step 4: Make her feel dirty. This is subjective and often executed extremely poorly so be aware of your actions and what you say. The idea is to make her want to be a nympho not shame her for what she's doing. I start by making her blow me for a bit while she is recuperating and then;

This is the part where things go to that next level but you need to know her deep dark fantasies to do it.

As she is working your cock begin to talk about her fantasies and make her see them in her head. Don't ask her questions make her focus on your dick. For Example does she like being tied up? Describe how the rope will feel while you drag it around her body as you bind her arms together behind her back. Does she like being spanked, Describe the sting of your palm on the side of her ass as you leave red welts down the back of her legs. Does she want to be a in a threesome with another guy? Describe the tears coming down her face from choking on your dick is as the other guy drills her from behind. Doesn't mater what it is, it is up to you to be creative here and get into her head because that's what's important. It's not about physically spanking or typing her up, it's about getting in her head.

Step 5: Penetration. Depending on how good your imaginary is it will come to a point where she can't stand it anymore and has to jump on your cock. Make it last. if you are done in 5 minutes here you are wrong but don't be gentle either. In fact at this point "gentle sex" is the worst thing you could do. It's fine to start off slow so her bits can accommodate your dick but after a minute or so ramp it up. if you are out of breath and sweating in 5 minutes go to the gym and work on your cardio, no excuses. Your sole job here is to rock her world, not to make her cum. If she cums great but ignore her and keep going, especially if she begs you to stop or slow down because she came. In fact, if she does that fuck her harder. Be an animal.

Step 6: The world breaker. This is where you intentionally make her cum while you fuck her. Everybody is different so you will have to experiment with what works best for you. For me the 2 most common positions are missionary with a pillow under her ass or on her side. In the first style she lays down missionary in front of you and you tuck a folded pillow under her ass so her waist is above yours relative to your trusting angle. What this does is create a trajectory that lines the head of your cock with her g-spot almost exactly. Remember her G-spot is only about 3" past the opening of her vagina so long thrusts work best here. That doesn't mean you need a 10" dick, that means you want to get as close to 'all the way in and out' as possible without pulling out. 2" of travel can work if you are very low on energy but it's not nearly as effective. The second style has her laying on either her right or left side (some girls favor stimulation to one side of her g-spot over the other) with her legs slightly spread and I use the vein of my cock and the flange of my cock head to put pressure on her g-spot. Again long trusts here. As you focus on her g-spot bring her fantasies back as Vividly as you can. Get in her head as deep as your dick is then let her cum. Fuck her through her orgasm then you blow your load.

Step 7: Hold her. If you were in her head deep enough she is going to start crying any second. Don't talk, don't ask her whats wrong, just hold her and let it happen. Once she stops shaking and crying feel free to ask her if she's ok and open up the small talk but once the crying starts leave her be. She's in her own head, leave her there.

Step 8: Respecting power. Once you break a woman like that you better be prepared to back up whatever emotions you drilled into her head (ie. threesome with another guy). Going that deep mentally is not to be taken lightly so expect severe consequences if you are not prepared to walk what you talk.

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