firstly, she's a noticeably attractive extrovert and i'm a fairly attractive and financially successful introvert. i've been pretty RP throughout my adult life and have never really played into her ego which leads me to believe i've always been somewhat of a conquest to her. she's always been into me and that's been obvious to many (we know each other through an online community but i can't be specific)

she was only supposed to stay for a few days, but she kept pushing it back and i ended up buying like 4 different plane tickets when it was all said and done and she was at my house for about a week and a half

on the night before she left she dropped the "i love you" bombshell to which i (perhaps idiotically) reciprocated but i think i meant it

the decision was made that she was going to go home, put in her 2 week notice and basically fly back and move in

we've talked civilly since then and she's gone to work a couple of times, so last night i was like.. are you giving your 2 week notice? she mentioned some shit about being afraid of confrontation and that she was either going to or already did but the regional manager wasn't there and he needed to sign the paperwork or something to that effect

i said something like "i feel like if you wanted to stay you wouldn't have gone back," and she said she regretted going back but that could have just been a gentle way of saying "this is awkward and i don't want to hurt your feelings"

we also haven't mentioned missing one another since the day after she left

i want to blatantly be like "look did you fucking quit your job and are you coming back" but that shit seems needy and i feel like i've already come off as bit needy which i'm immediately pumping the fucking brakes on

what type of frame should i hold? she types like 3 messages for my every 1 and i'm trying not to come on too strong, but not knowing exactly where she stands is driving me bonkers