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| 1 | Not sure if Beta Slip or just stale, Want to get her back to adoration mode.Start managing the finances if you're not doing that. She may not resent only having to work but also having to take all the stress of finances. Take charge of paying bills, planning what to do with the money etc. just because you earn less doesn't mean you have to follow her lead. Work out Get meaningful hobbies so you don't spend the rest of your time feeling sorry for yourself. Learn a new skill! Program, carpenting, whatever. Apparently you need to earn your self esteem and saying how great … | /r/askMRP | 07/07/16 10:39 PM |
| 1 | FR: POLL: Where we are ather parents died? then who are you talking about? sorry, the rest of your post is fine, but this part is confusing me | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/06/16 08:04 PM |
| 2 | LTR GF Lying about Vacation (X-Post from askTRP) - Update + Need AdviceShe has a high N count, a weak immune system and you fuck her without a condom? Get tested. | /r/askMRP | 27/06/16 03:23 PM |
| 2 | High SMV Male Dealing with Low SMV Wife Increasing SMVbtw you're handling all this criticism very well props to you! i know its hard but the noobies could learn a lot from you | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/06/16 06:24 PM |
| 2 | High SMV Male Dealing with Low SMV Wife Increasing SMVSounds good! But I think you need to bask a little in the attention of women. Right now you're focused on how well your improvement has benefited your marriage. Which is cool, for sure! But now you need to see how its improved yourself in the world. You say your SMV is high: test it. Go to bars, see how many women approach you, wink, flirt, dance, maybe get a number. Build some real sexual confidence so you feel like the prize and its easier for you to act to your wife like SHE is lucky and for … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/06/16 06:05 PM |
| 2 | High SMV Male Dealing with Low SMV Wife Increasing SMVoooooooh I see! Then use these next few weeks to game other women and get used to bathing in real attention from women you find attractive. At this point you should be coming here with a problem like "my smv is up i no longer wanna fuck my wife" type of issues. But you are lucky. She's making an effort! Appreciate it, reward her for it somehow, and keep pushing her. Give her challenges so you still maintain the feeling of being better and have fun man!!! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/06/16 05:46 PM |
| 2 | High SMV Male Dealing with Low SMV Wife Increasing SMVI'm a little confused. Did you PURPOSEFULLY marry a low SMV woman? Was that your point? And did she understand that you were committing to her BECAUSE she was less than you? In that case perhaps you should go on with your third-world thinking and keep your woman down. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/06/16 05:41 PM |
| 2 | High SMV Male Dealing with Low SMV Wife Increasing SMVyou were married to a woman who didn't turn you on??? was she unattractive when you married her? I'm confused | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/06/16 05:36 PM |
| 2 | High SMV Male Dealing with Low SMV Wife Increasing SMVDownload an audio book of Enchirdion of Epictetus and listen to that on the drive to work, he was a greek slave and a master-teacher of stoicism. hE IS much easier to understand | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/06/16 05:35 PM |
| 6 | How do you manage a newborn in the house?you clearly don't understand what frame means | /r/askMRP | 22/06/16 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Living abroad as a RPW... When your Captain is from another countryIt's going to be hard on your r/ship. VERY VERY VERY Hard. I have done this for a few months and it was harder than I thought and I was in a place where some people could speak English. Take a Chinese language class and make friends there. You may meet a few women who are in your situation and those will be the people who best understand your situatiion | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/06/16 11:07 PM |
| 3 | I got fat! 34(f) married to 38(m)you're lying to yourself. You've forgotten HOW MUCH HOTTER you look skinny. Nothing will change that I am afraid. Once you lose your first ten pounds you will realize you were crazy to think your current weight is OK. I once had your stats and looking back I am embarrassed that I thought that that could compete with what I look like at my fittest. Do not try to make him jealous by "having other men flirt with you. it doesnt work like that for men. Make him jealous BY LOSING WEIGHT | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/06/16 05:49 PM |
| 8 | I got fat! 34(f) married to 38(m)If you talk to him he will reassure you and you will lose your motivation | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/06/16 05:14 AM |
| 2 | MarriedRedPill Man - the wife's perspectiveHe also says he wants me to treat him like my third child. First red flag among a bunch. The guy in question is DEMANDING respect without inspiring it. That's why she felt the need to come to an internent forum and request validation for her eventual failure to keep up. Also note how "me me me" she is as an idea of how women view any VERBAL demands a low-value (he had to cheat) man makes. All she can think of is her needs and how she "needs to feel equal." these are classic indicators of a relat… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/06/16 11:01 PM |
| 1 | A Man of ValueYou're absolutely right! First aid is a great skill and so is CPR. Wasn't knocking it at all. Just thought I'd add a few other skills for those who don't have the guts to crack a guy's ribs doing chest compressions | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/06/16 06:25 PM |
| 1 | FR on accidental masculine demonstrations, and how, even years later they stick with women.true | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/06/16 06:23 PM |
| 3 | A Man of ValueAlso: Many "high-value" men have no skills that benefit others, btw. Many women don't actually care how "useful" men are. Look at criminals and men born to wealth. Neither have skills that "benefit others" but definitely do get bitches left right and center. Both however can display leadership and being "above the law" Unless we reframe a high-value man to mean perfecting skills he himselve enjoys for his own benefit? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/06/16 06:03 PM |
| 1 | A Man of Valuethat's true. I also didn't understand the emphasis on "making women swoon," but I thought dance was still a skill that ticked all these boxes and more. I fully recommend folks do skills they themselves enjoy or want to learn out of their own motivation. Many "high-value" men have no skills that benefit others, btw. Many women don't actually care how "useful" men are. Look at criminals and men born to wealth. Neither have skills that "benefit others" but definitely do get bitches left right and c… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/06/16 05:59 PM |
| 2 | FR on accidental masculine demonstrations, and how, even years later they stick with women.In some places in the world going in to fix another man's household appliances would be grounds for assault | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/06/16 05:52 PM |
| 1 | FR on accidental masculine demonstrations, and how, even years later they stick with women.pretty sad to watch a woman who has 0 fear of losing, or respect for keeping a man. pretty sad to see a man whose wife has 0 fear of losing him. Those men didn't hold frame and were shown up by some random guy who comes through once a year fixing a pump. says as much about them as it does about the harpies they married | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/06/16 05:50 PM |
| 2 | A Man of ValueI 100% agree. I was raised in a similar culture and it shows rhythm, fun-loving character, leadership, confidence, and all the other stuff women find attractive. If I were to rank skills I really would put dance way up there as a social skill | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/06/16 05:45 PM |
| 1 | What should be done about sexual tension?Not sure if this is allowed here but if you think you can't control it and really think you need to quit for a while, join something like /r/nofap. they have a whole bunch of stuff for you about this shame and dependency, especially with "extreme" porn or whatever. I don't know. But otherwise delete porn from your phone, having that stuff there is not safe. What if you lose it? Your identity is linked to that stuff forever so be careful. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/16 05:44 PM |
| 1 | A Man of ValueI enjoy your threads although sometimes you do venture into the too-specific. There are a myriad of skills that make people valuable. A lifesaving skill like CPR is certainly in the top 5. And kudos to you for being an incredibly useful person who comes to this sub and truly challenges people to push themselves beyond their perceived limits. Congrats! Keep in mind, other skills are useful. I've never personally seen a girl swooning at CPR, but sure! To each his own. My recommendation is always k… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/06/16 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Maintenance Talk with the Wife- some things observed as regards to "staying on message"Ok, this is my understanding of MRP. Up your smv (become physically attractive) Own your shit (run your life on your terms, do things for your own benefit. if you are hungry, cook. if you are cold, wash your clothes, etc. Show you do not actually need anyone. You are self-sufficient. And do it all because that is how you want to live your best life. Not because you are afraid to lose her.) Lead. If you have inspired your wife to realize you are your own man who can easily survive without her, an… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/06/16 05:10 PM |
| 1 | I drunkenly broke up with a LTR that I was in the process of plating.Yikes! | /r/askTRP | 01/06/16 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Maintenance Talk with the Wife- some things observed as regards to "staying on message"Great report, but I've got the same concern as the others. Why would you stop being a captain to punish the crew? Why have you opted for the tricky route of routine punishment (in the form of abandonment) instead of leadership by example? What if you try for a few weeeks, to carry on doing things around the house because it is your house and it your life and you want it your way? Instead of stopping just to spite her. I'm not entirely sure if her mind will be able to connect what she has done an… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/06/16 04:43 PM |
| 6 | Pregnant dread + BPD + withdrawal = Main event.Very well written, reflective, self-aware. I paused here a bit. we discussed BPD, and how our mothers conditioned us to be the way were are. And why it created such a toxic and unstable yet passionate relationship. Not sure it's a good idea to give her an excuse for future bad behaviour. Giving a girl a "diagnosis" is the easiest way to get even more nonsense out of her and she'll just cite "my meeental illneeesss" as an excuse for bad behaviour. Tread carefully here. But otherwise, solid work. … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/05/16 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Post-divorce perspective, part 2.yikes | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/05/16 08:57 AM |
| 1 | "What are you thinking" ltr asksShe's asking you that because she thinks you're boring. Become interesting | /r/askMRP | 25/05/16 11:31 AM |
| 1 | About my wifeSteer the ship. Her anxiety will disappear When she realizes that you aren't worried. A woman is a mirror. Any anxiety you have will worsen hers. Hide your fears | /r/askMRP | 25/05/16 12:33 AM |
| 0 | Keep Going. She has a breaking point.Chill. | /r/askMRP | 25/05/16 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Dread, or jackass?I see this line of reasoning in MRP too. They frame it as "man up and take responsibility for your children" and it is what draws the line between being a masculine man and being a dick for no reason. I answered the way I thought /u/thefamilyalpha might respond. I don't think he should worship her because she gave him children. They were probably her idea. | /r/askMRP | 23/05/16 08:00 PM |
| 7 | Dread, or jackass?Also, isn't disappearing from the house also about doing useful things? I don't see how going off to get drunk with your brother is improving you. Why don't you go out and learn a skill or something? Take a cooking/carpentry class or something. Become skillful in some way that you will enjoy and that will give you the self-confidence you seem to think will come from neglecting your wife. | /r/askMRP | 22/05/16 11:13 PM |
| 2 | [Serious] Can you guys help me?I think /u/theimmortalmortal talking about the way you are panicking right now. Doesn't say "trusty mate in the trenches" to me either | /r/askTRP | 22/05/16 10:08 PM |
| 5 | Dread, or jackass?The child she gave birth to is yours, right? Are the other two yours as well? I'd say this behavior MIGHT make sense for a man raising another man's children, but she gave birth to three children for you and you think the best time to disappear into the darkness is when she's literally breastfeeding the latest one now. She hates her body, she's off work with nothing but a newborn to chat with and you think the best time to look like a flaky loser is now? I'm just asking. This is the time for you… | /r/askMRP | 22/05/16 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Shouldn't dread game work even more on mothers?Excellent point about different type of mothers. I grew up with a mother who made it very clear that her marriage with my dad came before us. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/05/16 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Shouldn't dread game work even more on mothers?Great insight! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/05/16 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Shouldn't dread game work even more on mothers?Sorry, I don't get it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/05/16 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Shouldn't dread game work even more on mothers?Great point! Are you pointing out the fear of losing the kids and money in custody? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/05/16 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Email from wifehow come she can ignore years of his communication about wanting sex? | /r/askMRP | 13/05/16 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Epic fail.yeah I found that part weird. nobody wants a husband who gets dolled up before bed | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/05/16 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Time to accept realityshe throws surprise parties for him for the social validation. nothing gets a girl social tingles like seeming thoughtful. have you ever asked him what he would prefer? why does she need 50 people there to see her being nice to him | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/05/16 11:42 PM |
| 4 | (Article) She hates modern dating, lets men treat her like crap. Hookup culture is our fault not men's!!don't bother. he's going to go into the usual "refugees are going to destroy freedom by being muslims omg" spiel | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/16 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Looking for advice. Had an epiphany yesterday and realized that I scare potential suitors away by surrounding myself with guy "friends".I study stem and i am a complete mess haha | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/04/16 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Been with my boyfriend for 5 years and I really hate the fakt that I have started to think about other menI love that movie! | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/16 07:43 PM |
| 5 | Been with my boyfriend for 5 years and I really hate the fakt that I have started to think about other menWell they stopped being a LDR and she finally realized she only found him attractive online | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/16 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Suggestions on encouraging my man to be more ALPHA in bed?standing ovation | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/16 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Women Stay Hot as Bait for Marriage, Let Themselves Go After Mission AchievedThis comment is pure gold | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/03/16 03:48 PM |
| 3 | What exactly does other girls interfering between your approach mean?that is horrific advice | /r/askTRP | 02/02/16 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Studying Abroad in Africa with 7 girls, developed feelings for one of them. Stuck in close proximity with each of them for the entire duration of the tripWhy can't you go out to clubs? I've been to Africa a few times, it's not dangerous and there are plenty of beautiful girls willing to dance with an American. Why spend your entire time there fucking the same types of American females you can fuck in your own country??? | /r/askTRP | 02/02/16 05:13 PM |
| 1 | GF flat-out told me she's losing her sexual attraction to meIs nobody gonna mention your erectile dysfunction???? That is the biggest turn off in the world. Nothing throws me off more than a man who can't get/keep it up! | /r/askTRP | 02/02/16 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else trying to balance life with their writing?Hey! Thank you so much! I am talking more about literary writing. Of course there are many bestsellers with kids so maybe I'm crazy! Thanks for your insightful message you sound really lovely :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/16 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else trying to balance life with their writing?this is depressing. i am an award-winning artist now and i am always scared that the myth that women become worse writers/stop writing after kids might be true. if that;s the case i have a tough decision to make | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/01/16 06:05 PM |
| 3 | A woman's happiness is SMV-dependent (study: Rebbeca Addlington)First: i love your comment thank you for sharing! Second: you've nailed it. In my culture (very RP) and many old school RP cultures, there is a saying that a woman's beauty is in what she does. I am fairly attractive but my family has always emphasized gaining good skills: cooking/cleaning/hardwork. A woman is only worth what she can do. We talk about SMV here, but that's just half of it. The rest is being a useful wife to your partner. That's what feminiity is, being a good wife and mother in a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/15 09:15 PM |
| 4 | I know you all are just as annoyed as I am by the new Cranberry Splash commercial!Please make a post about all the bad reactions you THOUGHT you were supposed to have. We've all experienced it and I think it would be good for us to share...what do you think? I loved your comment so much | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/12/15 12:08 AM |
| 8 | Marrying "down"Easy: there are too many women who are highly educated and not enough men who are "more highly educated." If most women want men who are better than them in career regard, how can they all get that? | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/15 09:23 PM |
| 1 | "Housewives make their men healthy and wealthy"Is there anyway you could go back to that? | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/15 07:42 PM |
| 4 | "Housewives make their men healthy and wealthy"Read the article | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/15 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Youtube girl tells girls they shouldn't just expect to be treated like a princess and should learn love selflesslyHang in there, honey! Go easy on yourself for a little while. I've started meditating to try to monitor my thoughts and see if I can spot self-defeating patterns before they come. It's been helping a lot! | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/10/15 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Youtube girl tells girls they shouldn't just expect to be treated like a princess and should learn love selflesslyhahahaha! About them: I have seen them interact and he doesn't seem to put her on a pedestal even though I get the vibe OOONCEEE in a while that she's not used to having to make an effort to be liked. She's a very pretty girl. So he does have SOME alpha traits going for him... | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/10/15 04:48 PM |
| 4 | Youtube girl tells girls they shouldn't just expect to be treated like a princess and should learn love selflesslyI really really like bubzvlogz...she's really cute but also really unsexy sometimes (makes pooh jokes fairly often, haha) - she really shows that feminine energy isn't just about makeup and dresses: she's kind and very warm to her viewers, her husband and her family in general. I love watching her! | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/10/15 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Youtube girl tells girls they shouldn't just expect to be treated like a princess and should learn love selflesslyYeah, I kind of don't get them together hahah...but...yeah | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/10/15 03:10 PM |
| 3 | Youtube girl tells girls they shouldn't just expect to be treated like a princess and should learn love selflesslyI've been watching her for a while. She is so down-to-earth and kind! | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/10/15 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Youtube girl tells girls they shouldn't just expect to be treated like a princess and should learn love selflesslyThis video is filled with so many gems! | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/10/15 02:25 PM |
| 3 | Why You're Not Married - ExplainedBrilliant! I didn't mind the words in bold I think they drove your points home | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/15 10:48 AM |
| 2 | [Request] Tips on remaining confident and happy after hitting The Wall?Braids are good way to make it feel more manageable. I keep my hair (waist-long) in braids and it's now my thing | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/10/15 02:27 PM |
| 2 | FR: Thinking badly of your man hurts you more than it hurts himI don't think she would mind at all! Thank you so much :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/10/15 02:17 PM |
| 3 | FR: Thinking badly of your man hurts you more than it hurts himHow can I ever thank you for this perfect perfect answer? This is amazing, I'm bookmarking these now so I'll get back to you when I've read them. Thank you so much for these resources. As for his business, he talks me through almost every decision he makes about it and I help with marketing when he doesn't have the time to do product development AND that. But your last point is so perfect! I have to improve my more callous social material so I can make him look better, because sometimes I say or… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/10/15 03:29 PM |
| 3 | FR: Thinking badly of your man hurts you more than it hurts himThis is so great! I've been doing this subconsciously for months. He speaks at a slower pace and at a lower residue and thus people can sometimes speak over him or lose focus on what he's saying, so I started smiling and staring at him while he speaks and most of the time people listen more intently to him! Thanks for the last tip though, I will start incoporating "That's a great way of putting it, your always so good at X" into it. Thank you :D | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/10/15 03:26 PM |
| 3 | FR: Thinking badly of your man hurts you more than it hurts himThat's such a good point about the trash and the dog. Its so hard not to get immediately flustered and angry. I think its really inspiring that you've learned to fight that immediately. I'm working on it too and "How can I make this not a problem without involving him" is such a good question to ask myself constantly. Also, when you're getting ready to leave somewhere, stay out of the way. Know what time you need to be ready at, and make sure you're ready then. I like to ask "what time would you… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/10/15 03:24 PM |
| 2 | FR: Thinking badly of your man hurts you more than it hurts himHey! Thanks for your response. Man, when you recommended that book I went crazy online trying to find it. Please make a post! Do you have a blog I can subscribe to to get the update or will you be putting it up here? Seriously, your recommendation changed my way of thinking COMPLETELY. You know these days we really are being trained to think partners are disposable instead of learning how we can help them get better. I'm still getting my time management game on point, but here is some tips from … | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/10/15 03:21 PM |
| 3 | If I want to have a lower body fat percentage year-round, should I just cut out carbs?Go to /r/leangains | /r/askTRP | 22/10/15 04:48 PM |
| 2 | The power of thank you: UGA research links gratitude to positive marital outcomesAnd you can see it early on too. I have a friend who's been with her guy for 2 years and I have never heard them say "thank you" to each other. If he brings something to her she'll just take it without looking him in the eye and he will do the same to her. They have contempt for each other. I've seen it with my parents too. They don't show gratitude to each other. And it shows. It's a good habit to start early on in the relationship. And don't be shy about also saying thanks for the big things -… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/15 04:08 PM |
| 2 | "Any hole's fine" says Amy Schumer, and Nora Dunn wishes young girls had a better role model. (X-Post from TRP)Yup! | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/15 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Renegotiating the marriage contract.standing ovation | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/15 03:30 PM |
| 2 | "Any hole's fine" says Amy Schumer, and Nora Dunn wishes young girls had a better role model. (X-Post from TRP)I think most girls find her funny cause she makes them feel better of themselves | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/15 03:12 PM |
| 2 | "Any hole's fine" says Amy Schumer, and Nora Dunn wishes young girls had a better role model. (X-Post from TRP)A good example of a feminist doing this is Tina Fey. Amy schumer is not putting on an act to mock anything | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/15 03:11 PM |
| 1 | I need counseling but captain and I cannot afford it.I'm not in a part of the world where it would be easy to find such places locally. But thank you for trying! I just want to be better and being on RPW has helped me understand how to behave right but it's also made me see that behavioral changes won't hide deep-rooted problems. EDIT: also, my problems involve domestic violence in my family | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/15 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Effects of red pill on cultural differencesI think immigrants adapt to their "new place." Indian guys in my part of the world are very RP. Maybe you're adapting to how your Western friends relate to women. If you found RP people (by joining a gym, joining a "masculine" activity - sports or whatever) you may be able to remove the stench of pussy-worshiping that's pushing girls away. Good luck! | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/15 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Question about travelling as a single girlI'm trying! Thanks :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/15 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Question about travelling as a single girlI'm sorry to just pour out like this here. I know we're supposed to learn how to control our emotions. And I will. It's just a hard day. Thanks for listening. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/15 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Sharing a story - I apparently owe this subreddit more than I ever imagined. I met my current boyfriend right here. On RPW.Are you guys married? 6 months... | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/15 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Sharing a story - I apparently owe this subreddit more than I ever imagined. I met my current boyfriend right here. On RPW.Are you two married? | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/15 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Question about travelling as a single girlI started running away at 18. Each time they would drag me back and try to kill me. Travelling was never fun. It was anxiety and desperation and fear and money running out and having to go back, hoping this time it would be better and I would learn how to behave. It was watching people have happier lives while all I did was run away from mine. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/15 10:38 PM |
| 0 | Question about travelling as a single girlTraveling requires nothing from people except time and money; travelers are like spectators in the game of life. Wow. Profound. I've always felt that my desperation to travel was weird cause I didn't feel proud of it. I felt like it made it obvious that I came from an abusive home. I never mentioned it but always felt like I'm supposed to be proud of it or mention the places I've been all the time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/15 10:20 PM |
| 2 | RANT: Watched two friends have a mind-blowing conversationIts also a red flag that she doesn't think leadership is an important trait. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/10/15 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Dilemma: Choosing between supporting SO and completing degree program.CALM DOWN MY question was genuine. I may have had an idea of what I want to do but I wasn't 100% sure what I SHOULD do, that is why I brought my question here. If having an idea what you want to do is a criteria for not posting in a forum, nobody on Reddit would ever ask anything. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/07/15 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Dilemma: Choosing between supporting SO and completing degree program.My school is a shithole that is stuck in 1982. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/07/15 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Dilemma: Choosing between supporting SO and completing degree program.I told you I get paid for my work and that is what I'm using to contribute to the household (on top of cleaning, cooking, doing his laundry, so he doesn't have to move a muscle) Everybody has a hard time when they discover what they worked for isn't happening. So crying in an empty campus is not the sign of "an issue." I make jokes and funny faces every few hours and he says this helps him relax. He is the one that wanted me there and paid for my ticket. He has said many times that I motivate hi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/07/15 09:07 AM |
| 3 | Dilemma: Choosing between supporting SO and completing degree program.In 20 years it won't matter one way or the other that you delayed finishing school by a semester, but your relationship could be vastly different. this is totally true | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/07/15 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Dilemma: Choosing between supporting SO and completing degree program.Hey, I followed your advice and called the school and they say there's no way I can do it this semester, I have to wait till next year. I think we won't fight that much, I'm just scared, I guess. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/07/15 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Dilemma: Choosing between supporting SO and completing degree program.I just called the university and they say no its totally out of the question. I would have to miss 2 months of classes to pull it off and there's no way my parents are paying for that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/07/15 08:58 AM |
| 2 | Dilemma: Choosing between supporting SO and completing degree program.He wants me to go there and postpone school and he is hurt that I would even hesitate [he infers] given the sacrifices he's made for me in the past. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/07/15 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Dilemma: Choosing between supporting SO and completing degree program.He wants me to go there and postpone school and he is hurt that I would even hesitate [he infers] given the sacrifices he's made for me in the past. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/07/15 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Dilemma: Choosing between supporting SO and completing degree program.Thank you so much for your feedback! There's not much I can do. I do have a little bit saved up, and I've tried my best to minimize spending so it can last through the 24-hour travelling time (3 different airports) That's true - we will be staying in a gorgeous town, in our own house (our first place larger than a small room), right next door to the most gorgeous forests I've ever been in. If we fight, this will be on me and nobody else (he doesn't start fights, but he sure ends them.) | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/07/15 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Husband is 'cheating'... Maybe?If you don't want that advice then: Are you religious? Do you two have parents that support your relationship? Are you close? This might be time to seek outside counseling, as a couple. To get the guidance of elders or religious figures. He needs to be able to explain his behavior to someone else if not you | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/15 02:03 PM |
| 2 | My SO called me fat and now wants to take it backthank you | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/15 10:07 AM |
| 1 | My SO called me fat and now wants to take it backI'm 150lbs | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/15 09:54 AM |
| 7 | How to be strong for my struggling captain without being controlling/mothering?I hope you read the other responses on this thread and think how they apply to your situation. I'm glad to hear his situation is improving but please consider that if it does not; how will that affect your relationship in the future? How will you respect someone who can't ask for a job promotion at work? How will you respect someone who in the future is afraid to defend your honor in public because of social anxiety? These are things to consider | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/15 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Afraid new job will cause problemsQuestions: How long have you been together? What is your age difference? Besides being a provider, what do you love about him? What field/job are you in now? Are you married? | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/15 10:37 PM |
| 20 | Thought you ladies would appreciate this: OP links an article about a neglectful housewife. Redditor cries sexism. OP hits back. Hard. (xpost from /r/bestof)standing ovation this comment is gold and so is the reply from the happy husband. And so that's the longest chain of [deleted]s I've ever seen! | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/15 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend hanging out with girl who likes me ?cause girls are very good at manipulating their friends. And slutty girls are really good at playing victim and getting old friends back | /r/askTRP | 22/03/15 05:39 PM |
| 1 | LTR HelpTake the lead. Surprise her. Tingles just means surprises. She knows what you're gonna do and say now. If you want a LTR, you have to enter RP mode hard. Hit on her. Talk to her like you two just met. Plan things for her on the weekend and whisk her away. LTRs are hard and you don't have to be alpha full time. You need to learn to balance the two if you want a fulfilling relation ships. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/15 05:05 PM |
| 2 | The RPW and "Nexting"The thing is RPW are looking for someone who they can submit to entirely. Whose lead they can follow and respect. Now, if you don't have standards (besides "he has to be masculine") you're quickly going to end up with someone that is a poor choice. You'll be following around a loser. And that may be RPW in action it's pretty stupid. And we don't encourage women to be stupid here. So, of course if you choose the wrong captain we encourage you to next him at the earliest opportunity because you wo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/15 07:25 AM |
| 1 | “The Good Wife’s Guide,” a translated 14th century French text.I love ancient text! I love this book :D | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/02/15 04:57 AM |
| 2 | How do you handle disappointments?Does he earn much less than you? How old are you? Do you want to have kids? How long have you been together? Why did you bring this us? What did you expect? | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/01/15 08:57 PM |
| 66 | "Send me a Selfie... No, a sexy one."Just don't. You're not the kind of girl that sends "sexy selfies" so don't confuse them by doing it "just once". You don't want to be the girl that makes it seem like you're "up for anything" a and then suddenly disengages once commitment is up for discussion. PS. The kind of guy that asks for sexy selfies after the first date is not the kind you want | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/01/15 07:33 PM |
| 8 | Opinion on relationship situation pleaseWhy would a man that has to single-parent his kids most of the week and work late the rest of the time want to spend his only free night with someone else's kids out of sheer desire? Especially when you've not made it clear that's what you want? Either tell him to come or stop wanting him to. Those are your only choices. Wallowing in guilt/frustration will only strain your relationship | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/14 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Advice About Paternity TestsYou're welcome! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/12/14 11:37 PM |
| 3 | Advice About Paternity TestsIf you can't date a man with two kids (whether they're his or not) then don't. If you want a successful man who shares his resources with only you then leave this man and look for one. This will give him the chance to continue doing what he loves (being a father) and you a chance to have a man you don't think is a lovable fool. Make a decision for yourself. Ps. Why would you date a man you think is stupid enough to be tricked into raising someone else's kids or soulless enough to abandon childre… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/12/14 09:49 PM |
| 3 | FR from my 4 months LDRaaaaaaawwwwwww melts | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/14 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Is there an appropriate way to interact with a spouse who complains a lot?You don't say how long you've been married. Unfortunately, this might be too late to change. I have a big problem with complainers and I made it clear to my partner. This is how (maybe you can try too...): By talking about how much you hate people who complain. Not mentioning him, of course. I mentioned friends who complained a lot and told him how I avoided them and what I thought they'd be better off doing with their time. It sounded self-righteous but he got the point: my intolerance of it. B… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/14 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Boyfriend won't drop the threesome thing. What should I do?Classic! I always smile when I think of that bit. I remember saying "amen!" And laughing with my SO when we heard this. I'm glad I'm doing all I can to fulfill all his sexual fantasies so he can't think of going backwards with somebody else | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/14 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Feeding and watering your boyfriend?He doesn't have dishes? :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/14 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Boyfriend won't drop the threesome thing. What should I do?I'm not saying I agree! I don't think it's a good practice. Just trying to point out that her logic isn't as uncommon as you may think | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/14 11:33 PM |
| 15 | Boyfriend won't drop the threesome thing. What should I do?My generation is willing to do all sorts of raunchy things with guys we're not committed to. It's weird, but I'd say many girls my age have no problem promising guys we aren't tied to, filthy things. It's like the old fear of looking like a slut in front of your husband never went away | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/14 09:38 PM |
| 2 | How can I handle sexual rejection? (Do we view sex in the same way?)This is such an insightful comment! Thank you so so much . What a lot to think about. I guess I'm still too scared of rejection to try other means. But your words have inspired me to keep at it. Thanks! | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/14 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Just trying to understand some RPW-stuffYep! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/14 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Am I missing the signs of an impending proposal? Or making something out of nothing.This might be a cultural thing, but I don't understand how two marriage-minded people can be together for a year and not have discussed getting married to each other. Is the "surprise proposal" a normal thing where you are from? What does "marriage-minded" mean in a situation where someone has to hint at possibly being interested in marrying you? I'm not trying to be mean, I'm sorry if it seems that way, I just want to understand. I know people have different timelines and not everybody's relati… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/14 09:11 PM |
| 1 | How can I handle sexual rejection? (Do we view sex in the same way?)Maybe you're right. I mean, we're still very very far from being overweight. We eat healthy (but not always light) but yes, we've stopped being very active in terms of exercise. I completely agree that this has to change now before it goes too far. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/14 12:29 PM |
| -10 | First date advice?Why are you dating people in your age group, especially if all the people in your age-group go to a party college? Are you looking for a serious relationship or what? PS. Please search "first date advice"...I swear there are 25 million people posting here every month about that. Frankly, I don't think this sub needs anymore of these and you've provided almost no (relevant) information. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/14 09:56 AM |
| 1 | How can I handle sexual rejection? (Do we view sex in the same way?)Thank you so much for your input! I will remember all of this | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/14 09:45 AM |
| 0 | How can I handle sexual rejection? (Do we view sex in the same way?)Thank you! I should remember this. I've offered BJs and he turns them down (sometimes). But it really hurts so I can't even think of alternatives. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/14 09:45 AM |
| 3 | How can I handle sexual rejection? (Do we view sex in the same way?)I've put on 2kg. I gain weight around my butt and thighs. He says he likes it. At home I wear a jersey and panties. While I was cooking he came up to me and grabbed my butt then kissed it then he +++...Anyway, he seems to like it. (Technically he's always liked my t&a) I wonder if the problems I've voiced about my figure put him off. I don't know. Maybe I am fat and hideous | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/14 09:42 AM |
| 1 | How can I handle sexual rejection? (Do we view sex in the same way?)I never thought of it this way! I should definitely keep this in mind. Thank you | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/14 09:38 AM |
| 1 | How can I handle sexual rejection? (Do we view sex in the same way?)Thank you so much! I will keep this in mind and stop being so selfish | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/14 09:37 AM |
| 1 | How can I handle sexual rejection? (Do we view sex in the same way?)I could never say anything to him about going to the gym. I would be so ashamed, haha. I haven't been the beacon of exercise achievement myself, and I know he's not happy about not keeping up his regime. I think the best thing is for me to start working out and inspire him? | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/14 09:37 AM |
| 1 | How can I handle sexual rejection? (Do we view sex in the same way?)Thank you so much. Your words are so encouraging. I guess I was obsessing about this too much when I should have been obsessing about improving myself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/14 09:35 AM |
| 2 | How can I handle sexual rejection? (Do we view sex in the same way?)I think you're right about the phone. For spiritual reasons I've decided to stop letting the phone be such a distraction. And it's really not a good habit. Its the only thing he'd admitted he doesn't like. I could never, at this stage, suggest T-treatment to my SO. He would freak out and also I'm not yet sure if he needs it... | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/14 09:34 AM |
| 6 | How can I handle sexual rejection? (Do we view sex in the same way?)Thank you! I will asses this as time goes on. I don't know if I'll leave him but I have to admit this worries me. My cousin married a man that does not satisfy her needs ever (the stress has driven her to alcoholism) and his excuse is always that he's busy providing for her, but I wonder if he knows that sex is one of the things he needs to provide. I don't want that for myself. And I don't want that resentment for my SO. I love him and I know it would really crush him if I grew to resent him an… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/14 09:28 AM |
| 1 | How can I handle sexual rejection? (Do we view sex in the same way?)It's good that you are doing everything at home, but I really hope you aren't turning this into some sort of who's stressed more competition. I make sure to not ever mention anything that's bothering me. My goal is to try and avoid discussing "bad things" as much as possible. So I try to cheer myself up when he gets home from work because I realise that comparatively I have nothing to worry about. You need to get out and make some friends. Find a part time job or volunteer or take a class, anyth… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/14 09:25 AM |
| 2 | How can I handle sexual rejection? (Do we view sex in the same way?)Change diet to something more healthy and libido boosting he's been asking that I make lighter meals, and I have. I wonder if he's self-conscious about gaining a little bit of weight? Do physical stuff together even if it's just walking around the block -I've started us taking walks as the snows coming down now and bringing light to this otherwise dark part of the world Don't pressure him about it -I think you're right. I realised the more I talked about it the less it helped, especially because… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/11/14 11:01 PM |
| 6 | Music and portrayal of womenI listen to 50s pop. Pop is pop no matter when it's made. Even from a different time. I like 50s songs because they are more RP eg Etta James' "I just wanna make love to you" (lyrics: "all I wanna do is bake your bread! Just to make sure you're well fed. I don't want you sad and blue, I just wanna make love to you!) | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/11/14 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Help with potential LTR (kinda long)Get out now. Sorry to say. Search that condition/dysfunction on reddit and you'll find so many men ten-years into a marriage complaining about dead bedrooms. Fact. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/14 10:21 PM |
| 35 | Does anyone else here hate Sex and the City?Actually, pre-RPW I thought it was a whore-fest. But now that I've been around here for a while I've started to notice how many RP truths it dispenses. Charlottes obsession with marriage is not always healthy but she gives a lot of insights into post-wall life. She realizes that good men are worth fighting for and holding out for. Of course her list is a bit long, but she seems to realize she has to become a better person and have a good attitude to keep a good man. She is forgiving and patient … | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/14 10:53 PM |
| 1 | I think I might have hit the Wall. What can I do?Is this a joke? | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/11/14 10:28 AM |
| 1 | It's non romantic, but I think a girl is trying to compete with me. How would you gracefully handle this?You didn't say... But here's the impression I got: 1. the girl has a thing for your instructor. 2. She thinks you do too. 3. She thinks he likes you more. 4. She doesn't know why she's taking that class, fighting over a guy seems like a good use of her time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/11/14 12:49 AM |
| 9 | My feminist boyfriend loves RP treatment unknowinglyYep! My ex was like that. He used to get all worked up when he read about "injustices" against women. And rant about patriarchy and all of that. At first I thought he was just saying that because American girls liked to hear it. But I realized be actually meant it and he would get genuinely emotional. One time I told him how I was working on my weight because I believed being slim made me seem more youthful and feel more attractive. He freaked out! Said how dare I imply his mother and sister wer… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/10/14 12:52 PM |
| 1 | What to do if plate asks about other plates?Are you seeing other people? "Sometimes..." Or look at her for a long time and then laugh (as if laughing at her for lacking tact enough to ask you, ie. In a "I thought you knew this already" type of way) Or get slightly annoyed (if you're doing the dark triad thing) Or say "that's personal" | /r/askTRP | 20/10/14 08:11 PM |
| 2 | My GF (26) of 5 years is being weirdThis is scary stuff! I have some questions: How do you reward her for doing housework? Do you say thanks? Or so you sulk when she doesn't? (Carrot vs stick) I'm not perfect at housework but I do do everything for my bf and have learned that I am more motivated by rewarding good behavior than punishment. So when he pecks me on the cheek or kisses me for doing a good job and says "thank you" that makes me feel better to do more. 2. Does she earn more money than you? That can change how she thinks … | /r/askTRP | 20/10/14 12:17 PM |
| 0 | My GF (26) of 5 years is being weirdAre you lost? | /r/askTRP | 20/10/14 12:11 PM |
| 1 | I have this problemThanks for this great advice :) I will try to work on understanding why I won't let myself be happy | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/10/14 12:00 PM |
| 3 | Having (gay) male friendsI personally don't want to sound homophobic, but I've noticed most of the girls I know with gay BFFs usually have a hard time accepting blame when relationship ends. I'm talking about gay BFFs who are a bit on the feminine side and also flamboyant and sometimes promiscuous. There's something damaging about having a friend that always tells you whatever issue your relationship has is not your fault and you're fabulous and you can do better. It's just not the type of friendship that's good for you… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/10/14 11:07 AM |
| 1 | I have this problemThank you so much. I hope so too! I'm journaling all these weird feelings and reflecting on them daily. The weird thing is, when my SO walks through the door at the end of the day (I'm a homemaker ATM) I forget all this silliness and serve him his evening meal with a smile. I'm so happy to be with him. Maybe it's just the restlessness of being inside and alone all day. Also, a part of me wonders how he might take my future success. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/10/14 08:42 AM |
| 2 | I have this problemThat's something I do consider a lot. But I'm afraid I will regret it. We live in a country where you can't just get a job without a masters and since I'm very young, and I enjoy my field (science) I'd like to pursue that. My SO is already getting a Master's and working in a top 10 company, but I don't know why I worry about this. I think maybe it's my own tendency to over-inflate my ego. :/ | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/14 08:50 PM |
| 3 | Facebook and Apple Now Pay For Women to Freeze EggsThis probably isn't a popular opinion... I think you've forgotten where you're posting | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/14 08:43 PM |
| 3 | Is it possible to turn a BP relationship into an RP one (or have a Captain/First Mate dynamic)?My SO came from a home where everything was done for him. His mother and older sisters did everything for him, including occasionally doing his homework for him. I honestly thought that emulating how he grew up would be the best way to take care of him after he really struggled with doing things himself for the first few months we were living together. _ For any single girls reading, this is a huge red flag that says a man won't fit naturally into the role of leader. And "turning" a man like thi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/14 09:15 AM |
| 2 | r/sex discuss how it feels when their partner never says no. [NSFW, text]Nice! This is a great link. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/14 09:09 AM |
| 10 | Looking for anecdotes and tips for first time housewives.I've been living with SO for a few months now and here are my tips: Aim ashigh as possible This is good for at least giving yourself some standard to fall back on. Even if you don't stick to your original routine goals, you have something solid to land on. Remember always, that your problems are not big enough to drop into your SO's lap After a long day at work the last thing he needs is to come home and solve your problems too. If something is bothering you, come only to him when you've tried t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/10/14 08:21 PM |
| 3 | Why be a "plate?"faints | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/09/14 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Why be a "plate?"Who? | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/09/14 12:58 PM |
| 2 | Woman in an r/AskWomen thread anticipates her own negative behavior, and heads it offI usually take a nap around that time. Or force myself to cuddle with him. We live in a very small apartment so I can't "leave the room" But my moodiness is always explained to him and we spend times in silence. Or he makes fun of me and makes me laugh. He's a rock, doesn't get irritated or usually ignores my bad behavior. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/09/14 05:16 PM |
| 2 | i [28M] and her [24F] were online friends for ~7 years, we finally met last week and now we're in limboThis is the time to learn to balance a little beta with alpha. You've made a very big commitment to this girl and this is a crucial moment. She needs your emotional support. She obviously really really likes you, but quitting a job is scary, moving is scary and moving in with someone you just met IRL a week ago is literally insane. You need to assure her she's made the right choice. She needs to know you're in her corner cause right now it looks like SHES making a huge sacrifice and you being al… | /r/askTRP | 28/09/14 12:44 PM |
| 18 | Sunday Secrets made me sad todayMany people would die to have their partner desire them and women are complaining that their husband thinks they have a sexy ass? Am I smoking crack or what? This is crazy! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/14 06:39 AM |
| -2 | Question about an interaction between a friend and his girlfriend."Sorry" It's just a game. If he makes a big deal out of a game by making a show of "standing his ground" that'll just bring him down to her level. She was embarrassed in front of her friend and it doesn't matter now what he says/does. It's not about him or the game. "Sorry." And don't reply to anything on the topic. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/14 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Awful '50s Marriage Advice Shows What Our Mothers And Grandmothers Were Up AgainstI added a comment and thought that would be enough. Sorrey | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/14 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Awful '50s Marriage Advice Shows What Our Mothers And Grandmothers Were Up AgainstGod forbid some people are accountable for their own actions. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/14 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, I suffer from extreme hypergamy.I cannot express how absolutely wonderful of you it is to share this experience with me. I am learning so much from re-redding your comment over and over again. I fear for my future too! And I realize what you're saying is true: I should quit while I'm ahead. And it's also humbling to remind myself my bf could leave me for someone prettier if he had the chance. Thank you so much! I'm sorry to hear about your dad but that was a real wake up call | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/09/14 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, I suffer from extreme hypergamy.This is true! | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/14 06:52 AM |
| 2 | Seriously, I suffer from extreme hypergamy.This is excellent advice and excellent analysis. I think when I met my current SO that was the first time I really started to evaluate myself. I realized I was a terribly girlfriend! In fact e didn't ask me to be his gf until he saw my attitude improve. In the past I got away with being selfish and flighty because the men I "targeted" we're very beta when it came to women. But my SO has very little patience for any bad behavior. He knows he's a good catch and can walk out and get any woman he wa… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/14 06:52 AM |
| 2 | Seriously, I suffer from extreme hypergamy.I definitely can't do better than my current SO. I know this. That's why I'm scared of making the stupid mistake of ruining this just to spend the rest of my life thinking back to what I had. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/14 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Seriously, I suffer from extreme hypergamy.I think you're right! I dates my current SO after a few months alone working on my self and trying to understand why I could be so careless about serious things (school wasn't going well either). It's after I realized/decided what I want: a man/family I could devote myself to, that I could seek the right man with purpose. I guess this is my low self esteem rating it's head: just wondering if I can do this. Although I have done ok so far: he asked me to marry him and we recently moved in together… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/14 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Seriously, I suffer from extreme hypergamy.Thank you so much for this helpful advice. The answer to all your questions is yes: I truly want to spend the rest of my life with him and I believe he'd be an excellent parent to my children. I want to work from home and he's totally up for that. That is our current set-up. I am so happy with him, I guess I'm just paranoid and wondering if I'm in a "this is too good to be true I'm going to mess up" phase. Especially since we just moved in together. I think your advice about bringing him along i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/14 06:40 AM |
| 2 | Seriously, I suffer from extreme hypergamy.Thank you very much! These are some good points. I guess I am a bit paranoid. I've had in the past some mental problems stemming from childhood physical abuse, and although I've undergone treatment I still have this very passive way at looking at things. This R-ship is my chance to really work at things and myself and making him happy that's why I came here because he asked me to marry him I said yes and I don't want to screw it up by not dealing with this in some way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/14 06:33 AM |
| 6 | Seriously, I suffer from extreme hypergamy.Thank you so much! I came here for constructive advice and I'm glad I found it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/14 06:28 AM |
| 6 | Thoughts on being a housewife in today's society and economical standpointI've found that having an artistic hobby helps. When I meet people I tell them I'm a writer/painter/musician/designer (things I do SOMETIMES) and for some reason they think staying home to do that thing is much more acceptable than being a housewife. It's pretty easy that way I don't have to explain or make some "liberal" people embarrassed or whatever. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/14 09:12 PM |
| 2 | An interesting argument for having kids youngerI'm shooting for 25 latest for my first. Luckily oppa will be 30 by then and I'll be done with my masters degree. I wish I could have one sooner though. I'm baby crazy at the moment but I need to graduate first :( | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/14 08:00 PM |
| 9 | Be a blessing to your SO by not bothering him at work with stuff that's neither time sensitive nor urgent.This is a great post. I follow the advice I read here once about only telling my fiancé things that went well in my day (briefly) after he's had dinner and the maybe if I have a problem I tell him about it and the solution I designed for it. Otherwise I try to fill his evenings with laughter and jokes and relaxed fun. He has a stressful enough day with work and grad school. And I spend all day at home doing what I can to make it a warm and soft place to land. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/14 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Be a blessing to your SO by not bothering him at work with stuff that's neither time sensitive nor urgent.This is a great post. I follow the advice I read here once about only telling my fiancé things that went well in my day (briefly) after he's had dinner and the maybe if I have a problem I tell him about it and the solution I designed for it. Otherwise I try to fill his evenings with laughter and jokes and relaxed fun. He has a stressful enough day with work and grad school. And I spend all day at home doing what I can to make it a warm and soft place to land. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/14 07:57 PM |
| 31 | Why your wife or girlfriend should suck your dickHere's a big problem in this post: I never once asked her to do something for me Why? You can't expect any woman to magically decide to do something you didn't ask her to do. Especially if she doesn't like. I hope RP men take this as an example of learning to shoulder blame. A) You weren't an attractive leader B) you are not dominating C) you didn't inspire respect in her D) you didn't make her feel she needs to earn any of the things you do for her E) she's acting like a princess cause you're t… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/14 11:53 AM |
| 3 | Coworker with a BF, got drunk and made out a littleYou're nowhere near TRP ready enough to star pulling girls in relationships. Either she's mending her relationship or she's found someone else to fuck. Point is there are too many variables that make it difficult for you to figure out if your game is improving or not. Give it time | /r/askTRP | 04/09/14 10:22 AM |
| 4 | Constructive feedback on this exchange?You're talking too much. Keep your texts a maximum of 2 short sentences. Women find persistence attractive, desperation not. Persistence is from a confident attractive man. Desperation is from a loser. Which one are you? That determines how she feels about your constant calls. Is she flattered or irritated? It's all up to how you present yourself. If she flakes on you say nothing. This makes her wonder if you also flaked on her. If she doesn't show up how will she know you did? You're giving her… | /r/askTRP | 04/09/14 10:18 AM |
| 2 | Pictures of red pill relationships.You'll have to use pictures from the 50's like on the redpillroom blog | /r/askTRP | 04/09/14 10:07 AM |
| 5 | LTR: Too late to save?Its never too late to get a girl to start fucking you again. Stop all of your nonsexual touches Up your out-of-bedroom sexual vibes. Squeeze her ass. Bite her neck. Whisper something sexual and dominating into her ear. If she says "is all you want from me, sex" without you having explicitly asked for sex, you're doing it right. And when she asks you that, don't respond by explaining yourself. That is weak and unattractive. Reward her sexual corporation with short bouts of attention. Do it in a "… | /r/askTRP | 03/09/14 04:55 PM |
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