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[–]andrewgore96 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Text her Monday morning. Say something along the lines of: "Hey! We still good for tonight?"
Work from there. If she doesn't reply, just move on.
Side note; don't text her past working out logistics. You can't connect over text.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
just wait a bit, sometimes people get busy and can't keep up with their texts. even my steady GF has to endure me not responding for hours because frankly I don't check my phone that often.
[–]savagegrapefruit 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I wouldn't text her asking to confirm. If she's excited to go, she'll text you.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I struggle with this, too. I've had same situation happen to me as OP on tinder many times and I always say to myself, "if she was excited she'd be texting me a confirmation text" but they NEVER do. I've had great dates with chicks that'd never confirmed if I haven't. So, I don't think it's hurts to do so. Especially since it's Tinder and chicks swipe right and match with every dude.
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