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[–]Woujo 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I say ' we can hang out then if you like'. No reply.
This text will rarely get a reply. You need to propose a particular date/time.
You've probably blown this but if you want to get it back just wait a few days and ask her out to something fun again. Stop trying to "game" over text. It doesn't work.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I was attempting to convey non neediness. Was thinking of picking it up by making a reference to a joke we had to see if she responds then call her if she does.
[–]Woujo 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
No stop playing these games. Just ask her out. She doesn't want you to make a joke or do any of that crap. She wants you to ask her out. If you are overthinking something you are by definition being needy.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Do you think so? I get the feeling this would be a shot in the dark without warming the conversation again.
[–]Woujo 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Dude you fucked her, you don't need to warm the conversation.
Bro, your playing games has brought you to this position. After you fuck a girl, you need to immediately show interest again or she'll feel like you did a hump and dump. I honestly think you ruined it with this girl by playing games but your only option to recover this is by asking her out. THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS TEXT GAME. Just ask her out.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Argh dude, I suck at this part. What should I WhatsApp her?
[–]q31 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Move on, she has your number.
Should I not at least be slightly persistent?
[–]q31 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Not now. you've banged her and texted twice. You've been persistent. Next step is needy dude.
But if my mistake was not being comforting and committal enough, surely I have one more play?
[–]letsgetrandy 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
But its tough to tell how the girl actually feels you know?
That's not your problem. Stop trying to predict her feelings, and stop waiting so long.
After a night of sex, you should always have a follow-up text either same day or next day, just saying "thank you, I had a good time". Wait for her reply and then suggest that you hope you can do it again soon.
This follow-up makes it clear that you're on the same page. Without it, you give her two days to decide it was too casual and begin writing you out of her mind.
I say ' we can hang out then if you like'.
This "hang out" thing definitely conveys a lack of plan and a subtle lack of interest. Try to suggest something more concrete.
I did text her the next day, but she flatlined when I said we could hang out. Ideas on next play?
[–]letsgetrandy 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She hasn't replied in a week.
There is no next play. Look elsewhere. If she's interested, she's got your number.
ok. So in reflection I came across too non committal.
[–][deleted] 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
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I did make a reference to a conversation. Dude, this is the best girl I have met at uni, I need to at least try something.
[–][deleted] 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thanks for getting back. Main problem is I have medicine exams in two weeks then we break and no uni for 3-4 months. It is unlikely I will have this opportunity. I am thinking of an FB add to keep contact without direct contact. Any thoughts or further ideas?
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