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[–]natephant 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"I'll tell you over drinks"
[–]Woujo 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
"My life is awesome cuz I'm going on a date with you. How is X place at Y time?"
[–]Giveyourlifepurpose 9 years ago* [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
The first line feels really needy. Like she's the only one in your life. And without her your life isn't awesome.
Don't put pussy on a pedestal
[–]Woujo 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
There is a thing called emotional intelligence.
In this situation, such a line would clearly come off as a compliment because it's said in a joking way.
Under your thinking, any compliment you give to a girl is needy.
[–]Giveyourlifepurpose 9 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
I definitely don't think every compliment you give is needy. But your life is already awesome. And she should be happy that she is going to take part in it. You are the prize, not she. Keep that mindset and she will chase you if she is into you
[–]Woujo 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dude it's clearly a joke. Don't use it if you don't want.
[–]Sad_Sleeper 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
it's a 50/50 she might not get the joke or she might like to see the OP because of the the upfront answer.
Just ignore her question(shittest) and continue on planning your date with her
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[–]Giveyourlifepurpose 9 years ago* [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
I advise you suggest meeting up one week in advance. So hold on to that text. In the meantime, keep her somewhat engaged. Don't spend hours texting her, but every few days write something interesting or ask how she is doing.
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[–]Giveyourlifepurpose1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
First, aim for something low effort/price. A bar or coffee shop is great. If your first date goes well, then aim for more exciting things.
[–]Return_Of_BG_97 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah that was a definite shit test lol.
There's this really good webinar with Todd Valentine on YouTube that helps you prepare for shit tests.
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