All my problems with women stem from being an overall boring person.

I don't stimulate the mind the body or anything really. I'm not memorable and I don't make people remember me or make them want to hang out or think of me ever again. And get to a sexual level? No way if I can't do the previous things I mentioned.

Also the idea I have of myself being a boring person sometimes (or maybe often) stems from having no self esteem or confidence. Maybe it's both.

I've realized the problem and now I need to find out what to do about it.