I am not having an issue becoming emotionally attached as a result of sex. What I am having an issue with is really enjoying sex without there being a pre-existing emotional attachment.

I haven't had any ED issues. But I'm finding that it's exceptionally hard for me to cum. I've been flipping girls into all kinds of hot positions and, from a purely physical standpoint, the sex I've been having is outstanding. Having said that, the emotional aspect was something I relied on in the past to really get into it and I'm finding that, without that emotional portion attached, it's just hard to cum.

I'll pound away in different positions from 45 minutes to an hour. I can be dominant with the girls or sensual. But it just gets to a point where my mind starts wandering elsewhere and I give up on cumming because I'd rather roll off with a hard dick than having a plate feel like I went soft on her or deal with the embarrassment of going soft myself.

This has kind of worked to my advantage, as I'm having plates say shit like, "I wish I was able to please you." etc. but I want to be able to cum for ME!

Anyone else out there have/had this issue? Any helpful advice?

Note: I've cut masturbation down from multiple times a day to maybe twice a week, usually on Sunday or Monday nights.