I'm [21M] desperate and unhappy... how do I snap out of this?

issakite · 2017-05-26T23:27:35+00:00

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Reeeeeacher · 2017-05-27T00:13:01+00:00

You answered your own question. You're getting your validation from dates, not from the life you live. Improve your life. SIDEBAR

Roman347 · 2017-05-27T01:24:18+00:00

the easiest form of validation is what others think of you, especially the people you're attracted to because you hold them in high regard, so their opinion must be in high regard. However, that isn't the best way to think about it, just the most common. When you fell good about yourself, others will notice and then you will get what you want. To feel good about yourself you need to work on yourself, improve, or do things that make you happy and most importantly remember that the opinions of others mean very little in the grand scheme of things on the scale of the common person. You could lay on the ground for people to walk all over you and they'll still complain that you aren't flat enough. Confidence is also imperative. Fake it until you make it or until you feel comfortable enough with it again.

TL;DR: Make yourself happy however you want to do so, and eventually the rest will follow.

2017-05-27T19:06:19+00:00

find a friendship circle, quit worrying about numbers of women you date so much. women come and go but friends endure.

Title	I'm [21M] desperate and unhappy... how do I snap out of this?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	May 26, 2017 11:26 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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