Many don't learn until much later in their cold approach journey that in order for a woman to want to go out on a date with you, an emotional impact has to be made. Women are visceral, that is, they are more concerned about how men make them feel.

When a woman gives you information about herself, this is an indicator of interest, Not necessarily a big indicator or interest or one of significance, but it suggests that she is willing to converse with you (assuming her body language and non verbal facial cues suggests so also). It is your job to take what she says, and make the conversation playful and fun.

Let's say you ask a girl what she does for fun and she says: " I like to go to bars" You could respond with the following questions that are not boring and predictable and make the conversation fun

  1. When was the last time you got black out drunk?
  2. How do you focus with hangovers the next day?
  3. Has a bouncer ever thrown you out?
  4. Have you ever gotten into a bar fight with a guy/ girl
  5. Have you ever seen anyone get jumped?
  6. What would you do if a girl accused you of something and wanted to fight you? Would you square up?

Let's say a girl told you the she enjoys running for fun

  1. What areas do you like to run in?
  2. There's some really crazy drivers out here, have you ever almost been ran over?
  3. Don't you hate it when you run past people, wave at them and they don't wave back
  4. How long do you think a cat could keep up with you during your run?

Let's say she tells you she hangs out with her cat:

  1. What noise does a cat make (start making playful, goofy meow sounds)
  2. Ask her if it is fixed or not
  3. If it is not fixed, ask her if she gets around and hooks up with other cats in the neighborhood
  4. If it is fixed, ask her what she would do if it somehow got pregnant and had 10 children at once? Would she keep all of them / adopt etc.
  5. Ask if she thinks her pet would make a good parent
  6. Ask does it ever annoy that shit out of you at times

To some of you guys, these questions may seem stupid. However, what they are not is boring and predictable. They are fun, associate you with fun, and she never knows what is going to come next. It may be hard for you guys to comprehend how a woman could possibly enjoy answering questions like this, but they absolutely do. The reason most guys may scoff at the idea of asking these questions is because they are using guy logic as it pertains to female attraction. Most guys can't comprehend how these types of questions can build attraction because men are innately hardwired to place emphasis on the exchanging of facts during a conversation, while women emphasize the emotional impact made (how you make her feel)

This article goes into more detail about how to not be boring in conversation with women:https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-have-fun-and-playful-conversations?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web