I’m 17 and have no game due to me having Asperger’s. How do I gain the confidence?

mister_k1 · 2023-07-29T15:30:30+00:00

fuck them pseudo friends if they don't wanna hangout with you, i find it so commendable to see a young man such as yourself looking to level up, one advice i can give is start working out very seriously, calisthenic is the way to go...check it on yt so much high value resources.

kettlebell_workout · 2023-07-29T15:52:49+00:00

I don't know if it is the truth, but people in the spectrum tend to be very logical. If that is the case, then you agree that:

People who are really good looking and have great social skills has a good success with women. They go to the club, social event etc. and they find someone without much of the effort.

So by that logic if the person is lacking in any of those areas then he would have to put more effort in order to get same results.

On the other end of the spectrum we have individuals who are so unlucky that they not only can't get same results based on the amount they put, but they can't get any results no matter how much effort they put. For example, people with genetic anomalies, burn victims, very depressed individuals and so on.

I don't know where you put yourself in terms of this scale. For example, do you consider that you have more chances than a person with third degree of burn on the face or less? Once you know where you are, then you can anticipated how much effort you have to put in order to succeed, accept that, and then work on it until you get results.

creoix · 2023-07-29T22:44:15+00:00

It's great that you're looking to improve yourself. Confidence is a skill just like anything else. So you've got to practice it.

Charisma on Command on YouTube is a great resource to start. They have tons of great material for free.

https://youtu.be/49Dfl2F3UG4

If you want people to enjoy being around you, you've got to become someone people want to be around.

That means being interesting and fun. Top areas I would recommend looking into are Communication (especially being able to tell a good story), Stoicism (being able to control your actions and emotions), and fitness.

You got this my guy 💪

Title	I’m 17 and have no game due to me having Asperger’s. How do I gain the confidence?
Author	AppropriateBoss2585
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	July 29, 2023 3:06 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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