Mistake 1 - Letting her make the rules about what can be discussed and how long to discuss it. This is you letting her lead the conversation. This is you accepting whatever emotional baggage she wants to dump on you.

A "bad boy personality" doesn't accept this kind of behavior. He has rules and leads. She actually doesn't want to show him her emotional baggage out of fear he will lose interest.

The guy who gets friend zoned is the guy who allows her to make all the rules. She has no fear that he will lose interest in her.

Mistake 2 - Hiding from her that you are a sexually desirable man. Guys who get friend zoned believe they shouldn't let her know that other girls might be interested in him. He thinks it will make her lose interest while he waits desperately for her to finally fall for him.

But it's the exact opposite. By hiding the fact that other girls want him, he's reinforcing the fact he's not sexually desirable. The "bad boy personality" doesn't hide the fact that other girls are interested. And when one girl sees other girls interested in him, it spikes the attraction for him within herself.

Mistake 3 - Guys who get friend zoned don't talk about sex. They are afraid the topic of sex will push her away. Or they just don't know how to talk about it. Either way, she concludes that he's not interested in sex. Even if that conclusion is subconscious.

For a woman to have sex with you, she needs to think about (1) you and (2) sex at the same time. The "bad boy personality" discusses sex freely. He's comfortable and confident discussing sex around her which gives her the opportunity to start thinking about sex with him.

In this video on the 3 Specific Solutions to getting out of the Friend Zone, even if you have been in there for a long time, I lay out a specific 3-step plan for how to get out, once and for all.