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What I can only describe as "Hometown Blues". Please read on.

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June 18, 2017

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Title	What I can only describe as "Hometown Blues". Please read on.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	0
Comments	6
Date	June 18, 2017 1:42 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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[–]Boyboy15 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

My friend my friend i feel for you i havent experienced what you have but still deal with my own problems i shall describe sum techniques wich i use

For confidence Your mindset (you cant just say these you have to believe them)

Instead of saying something negative as soon as it happens replace it with that time you got the highest kill streak in call of duty instead of running away from who ever was calling your name you should have said "lets see who calling my name who is it i have the confidence to deal with any situation"

Where ever is most comfortable to you start practising being your most confident do this again and again

Then start being your most confident around your mom again and again then when you go out with her start being your most confident there it will be time where you feel less confident what i do when im nervous but can make me seem confident is just to touch your nose with your thumb like your wiping it and remind your self you are in a normal situation

As for the girls in highschool fuck them stop lingering on them anytime you think of it use confident affirmations

Oh hes wierd why are you mentioning him ?

You in your head should say

"Taha there funny fuck them"

"So what im calm confident and dominent"

"Lol i have people talking about me im a star" Etc etc

Fake it till you make it it works and very well start acting like someone you really admire Develop his mindset and eventually you will be more confident dominent and composed then you ever thought ;)

[–]writingwhispers4 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Great advice.

I think the problem is that yeah fuck them they're probably still in highschool (they were a year below me I think) but they're still around and still were trying to get my attention... which in my mind brings back the bad memories of getting stalked and bullied and... a whole host of bad shit I'd rather forget.

Where I'm most comfortable is outside of America. I just can't game here. My university is super small and heavily commuter so meeting girls on the street is practically impossible and they aren't my type anyways. I feel much more confident and at home in Europe, tbh.

see, that last one "I'm a star" worked until they stalked me and would doctor photos of me to put on Instagram and Snapchat, whether photos I took with them or photos they took of me on the street. It was fucking creepy and to this day they deny it (as if they'd admit it).

Overall, thanks. I'm still getting the hang of things and figuring out life but I've always kind of thought eventually the road we travel on doesn't become as bumpy and becomes quiet lively and happy instead with a little hard work and perseverance.

[–]Boyboy15 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

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[–]Boyboy15 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]writingwhispers4 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link