Goals before the date:

I had a clear goal in mind before the date from some advice I received from a previous thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/6hu1li/my_first_post_and_field_report_on_redpill_harsh/dj15j3g/?context=3

Basically, I tried really hard to escalate reactively instead of proactively, only pushing things to the next level when the girl gives me a signal instead of always trying to kino her over and over again.

I met this cute girl named Jen while out clubbing the weekend before. I got her number then and almost pulled her home back to my place, but she was resisting really hard so I settled for a hug and walking her back to the train station then. After that, we exchanged a few texts and she actually ended up asking me if I saw "The Mummy" yet. Naturally, I jumped on this opportunity and texted her back that I just bought tickets, and arranged a date for Saturday evening at 9pm.

Date Night:

Met her at the entrance to the theater and walked her in after buying some popcorn. The movie itself was godawful and my attempts to hold her hand or touch her throughout the film were not really reciprocated on her end. Jen was pretty awkward in general and did shit like talk too loudly in the theater and have people next to us shush us

When the movie ended, I walked her outside and took a walk around the city, walked along the coast and checked out some boats before wandering into a bunch of random high end stores and building the first real connection by cold reading what kind of clothes are her style (I went with elegant modern). She was like "OMG, how did you know?" After that, it was getting kind of late so we headed to a local rooftop bar and got some frozen alcoholic popsicles. I was in a social mood so I chatted with everyone there while she was more quiet and reserved. It was at this point that she really started opening up after we started talking about my business and how I just closed a big deal today.

After that, we went exploring around the rest of the hotel where the rooftop bar was and she had this cutest fear of heights thing. This is where things really started taking off and she started holding my hand and acting all nervous whenever we walked past any railings. I actually ended up making out with her on a bridge like structure, which was nice.

Finally, we finished the night by grabbing some food and this is where I really should have stopped but for some reason I chose not to. She was making all sorts of hints that this is where we should part ways, saying she has an early morning tomorrow and for some reason I chose to ignore them even though I was aware of them. I told her I would follow her home and when we got there, I tried escalating like crazy and got shut down hard. She said she has roommates and practically ran away from me.

And that’s the end of the date. Started at 9pm and ended at 2am. Overall, I really fucked up at the end by being too aggressive, as usual, but not all hope is lost, as she did text me at 3am after the date saying that she was super tired and wanted to hang out again next week.

Overall, I still think I have a shot with this girl but definitely on my next night out, I’m going to forget about sex altogether since it’s getting absolutely ridiculous that I’m making the same mistake over and over again with multiple girls and still not learning from it. I think it’s just that when I feel close to the girl and we either get back to her place or mine, my animal brain just kicks in and makes me go crazy. Probably going to try jerking off before I go out next time lol.

In terms of following my plan, I did lean a bit more on the aggressive side but overall, things went much better than my previous dates since I backed off entirely when I noticed she wasn't responding to my touches during the movie and only started escalating again when I saw some signals from her.

As always, any pointers would be greatly appreciated and will be considered for implementation on my next night out.