My number 1 issue is that I don't feel I'm good enough for a girl or that any girl will truly ever love my personality

username_1_1_1 · 2017-06-25T04:04:40+00:00

I think this falls under the "putting the pussy on a pedestal" category. You're assuming that the girl is somehow more interesting, more charming, and more intelligent than you are, when really she's just a regular person with strengths and weaknesses like the rest of us. If you weren't so attracted to her, you wouldn't be insecure about yourself. Start screening them for flaws and you'll start to relax.

OneirosSupreme · 2017-06-25T05:52:20+00:00

You're insecure about your personality. When you meet people that you think are better than you( read:girls) , you worry about how interesting/charming/fun you come across. The advice I can give you is you have to come to terms with who you are. Or failing that, act confident. You've probably heard a lot about behaviors girls find attractive and the kind of man who attracts women. The truth is, you don't have to have the personality of a God to attract women. Some of the blandest people I know, do really great with women. Their secret is, they are not afraid to take action and move interactions forward. That's all you need. A willingness to move interactions forward. The more you practice this and succeed, the more comfortable you'll be with the man you are in relation to attracting women so just keep soldiering on. Your personality is fine.

jignes2002 · 2017-06-25T04:10:54+00:00

Look at yourself in the mirror and fap.

2017-06-25T06:49:37+00:00

I had the same mindset for years when I was younger and still figuring out a lot about life.

It all comes down to you accepting.the fact that you are someone women can be attracted to.

2017-06-25T14:32:46+00:00

Go to /r/amiugly and post a pic, free reassurance (or not)

Title	My number 1 issue is that I don't feel I'm good enough for a girl or that any girl will truly ever love my personality
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Upvotes	3
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Date	June 25, 2017 3:43 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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