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Cutie Neighbor Not Quite Feeling it? Me (early/mid 20s) her (later 20s)

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July 18, 2017

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Title	Cutie Neighbor Not Quite Feeling it? Me (early/mid 20s) her (later 20s)
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	5
Comments	6
Date	July 18, 2017 7:22 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6nz85z/cutie_neighbor_not_quite_feeling_it_me_earlymid/
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[–]JuanitoNinjito 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

[–]MichaelxBee 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

[–]JuanitoNinjito 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Basically a lot can change in 2 weeks, and at that point if you have basically minimized contact with her (little to no replies, sorry just super busy) she is going to wonder if you're not interested in her anymore/you're now into someone else. It's like she'll have to reaffirm that you are still all about her to herself.

In these 2 weeks it's a dual combination.

1) do try to move on & meet other girls, have other things going on. If some other girl comes along and wins you over, awesome. And if not, in two weeks you'll probably have a new perspective and not be as emotionally attached as now. And that will show and help things.

2) write down what the "rules & boundaries" were and how you're going to change them next time around (and with all other women as well). It's in the always' & the never's... (I always complimented her when she fished for it, she always ended our text conversations, she never messaged me first)... these are some of the more obvious ones ... but go even deeper to the more subtle things (I never acknowledged other woman around her, she always chose the music if we went somewhere)...

Now you need to change them, subtly. This means don't 180° and never compliment her again, more like only 30% of the time compliment her. She's basically trying to re-figure you out, and like a detective, it's going to be like "is it this? .... well, no, because he still did compliment me a couple of times, so that can't be it" So with many subtle changes you are going to be driving her subconscious crazy trying to figure out this new you. Also note it's ideal to have something in appearance change too, be it subtle or not so subtle. That alone will make her be like whoa, he's changed. But it will also be obvious what's changed.

I had a girl that had got bored with me cry her eyes out 2 months later that she's in love with me and she doesn't know if I love her the same. A few days later she even said she thinks it's because she can't figure me out. It works well, but never ever reveal your cards or what's changed. Because that's when you're no longer mysterious or non-predictable anymore.

Also, note how this will help you with everyone else in the future as well. Doing this in any relationship you have (including w guys) can redefine and deepen relationships all across the board, not to mentoon strengthen them and make you a lot more liked & respected.

[–]MichaelxBee 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]JuanitoNinjito 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]MichaelxBee 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link