Shall I tell her that I will start dating other women?

NiekuhlaTesla · 2017-07-21T17:20:08+00:00

Don't tell her. What does she care who you're dating? You're not in a relationship with her so it's none of her damn business, you're a free man and you're entitled to date whoever the fuck you want withouth the permission of her.

Telling her means you're still emotionally dependant from her. It means you need her validation to see someone else.

ArchangelFuhkEsarhes · 2017-07-21T17:28:51+00:00

Okay first thing, stop having 100% free time. Find a hobby, clubs (like an organization), volunteer opportunities or something that will get you out of your house. That will help a lot on not being needy and will let you meet more girls. I don't really understand why you are saying you can't make yourself busy but that's exactly what you gotta do. And this is the answer to your last question, you find women by loving your life doing things that are fun to you.

Second, I can't tell if you are dating or not. If you are dating then obviously you need to tell her if you are going to date other people. If you aren't dating, why the hell do you have to tell her?

midnight_toker22 · 2017-07-21T18:31:36+00:00

You shall not tell her that.

Telling her that is immature and means you are trying to illicit some type of response from her, which is, in a way, approval seeking behavior. It means you're needy, which you obviously are.

I'm not really going to go into that much further. Just don't fucking do it.

The only other think I'll say is that you CAN and SHOULD be making yourself busy. Nobody is attracted to a person who has absolutely nothing going on in their lives, and is just waiting for someone to come along and give their lives meaning. It's like you're a venus fly trap and she's a fly, and you're just going to suck the life out of her by glomming on to everything in her world. And if you happen to find someone who still wants to be with you even though you have no life, it means they have no life either and are seeking to do the same thing to you. And you'll quickly find yourselves in a codependent relationship, which is fucked up.

So not to be rude, but you need to get a life. Find hobbies. Start working out. Fill your life with your own interests, and you will be much more attractive to women.

2017-07-21T17:44:44+00:00

Yep, I agree 100%. Just tell her flat out you are going to start seeing other people and don't want to be committed.

Don't let her talk you out of it if she tries either.

cold approaching isn't a real thing

Yea it is, guys sarge in Europe all the time. It works just as well in Europe as here. Works in Japan too.

Women are women everywhere and respond to the same things generally. Unless your sarging a muslim girl dressed up in a trashbag in Qatar it's no different

Title	Shall I tell her that I will start dating other women?
Author	doxaautomatique
Upvotes	3
Comments	4
Date	July 21, 2017 4:40 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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